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[mu4]

I wrote two lines of text and out comes all the axe-grinders.

Anyways I had to throw out my ice cream monday.... I left a crack in my freezer...

[fen]

Anyways I had to throw out my ice cream monday.... I left a crack in my freezer...

I was there to witness the burial.

[Creepy-male]

Anyways I had to throw out my ice cream monday.... I left a crack in my freezer...

More like destroying the evidence

[ashlesha]

why are there only five votes in the poll?

[fen]

why are there only five votes in the poll?

I made the poll awhile after making the thread so a lot of people havent voted.

[Suz]

I wrote two lines of text and out comes all the axe-grinders.

Anyways I had to throw out my ice cream monday.... I left a crack in my freezer...

oh NOOO!!! btw i've done that a few times in the past month...

but i noticed before any disastrous melting happened, so i just refroze everything...

[Suz]

^ just FYI: I was face-palming because you didn't get an obvious joke. And it seems like you still don't get it.

you're right i dont get it then... explain?

i thought it was really funny though, the way i saw it...

[Pa3s]

I honestly don't know if you were playing along with HLD's joke and being ironic, or if you actually thought that he was serious.

[Suz]

I honestly don't know if you were playing along with HLD's joke and being ironic, or if you actually thought that he was serious.

well i didn't know if HLD was being serious or just kidding, but either way i was playing along... if kidding, it's still an imaginary scenario...

but explain joke please!!

[HandiAce]

IEE imo

You don't do well in 'beta-like' atmospheres which tend to be jokingly hostile.

This is the one thing I don't like about Betas, but at the same time, I would think someone who is Fe-valuing would not want to come off as hostile.... If one wants to have a positive influence on other people, then wouldn't jokingly hostile be avoided?

[ashlesha]

this sort of thing makes me uncomfortable lol.

[Pa3s]

@WA: Ahh, you know there is not much to explain I guess. I was just confused by your seemingly serious response to HLD's joke (that's the one I was referring to). Especially because you wrote "oh u guys know each other??". What he said was basically a comedic exaggeration of hkkmr's "evilness" since several people suddenly started to complain about him in the thread. That's why I was face-palming.

EDIT: Referring to what thePirate said: I'm often jokingly hostile as well...

[Gilly]

I liked Korpsey. His humor reminds me of Heaths, only, darker. He was never an ass to me & always decent to talk to.

<3 our little k0rpuscle

Where has he been?

[Suz]

This is the one thing I don't like about Betas, but at the same time, I would think someone who is Fe-valuing would not want to come off as hostile.... If one wants to have a positive influence on other people, then wouldn't jokingly hostile be avoided?

betas like to be edgy though and i guess they have some innate sense of when the hostile thing said is just "joking around", or maybe they just dont take anything seriously? or they're turned on by that sort of thing? or all of the above?

[Suz]

@WA: Ahh, you know there is not much to explain I guess. I was just confused by your seemingly serious response to HLD's joke (that's the one I was referring to). Especially because you wrote "oh u guys know each other??". What he said was basically a comedic exaggeration of hkkmr's "evilness" since several people suddenly started to complain about him in the thread. That's why I was face-palming.

EDIT: Referring to what thePirate said: I'm often jokingly hostile as well...

no u arent.. not like the betas...

oh and the "oh you guys know each other?" was in case he was serious... and also to try to figure out whether he was or not..

[Creepy-male]

I am serious that little ice cream sandwhich nabbin knave, I bet if he showed us his hands there would be chocolate all over his fingertips - shAmeless, sad...

[Pa3s]

no u arent.. not like the betas...

Well, you don't know how I am in real life.

[Suz]

Well, you don't know how I am in real life.

but i'm sure it would come across to some extent online too... i've been on the receiving end of it from the betas when i first arrived on the forum selftyping IEI. It was not pleasant... but that's just cause i couldn't handle it. I was misunderstanding the humor, but that's what socionics is all about... mutual understanding/misunderstanding and the various degress thereof.

SLI humor can be very dry and sarcastic yes.

[glam]

betas like to be edgy though and i guess they have some innate sense of when the hostile thing said is just "joking around", or maybe they just dont take anything seriously? or they're turned on by that sort of thing? or all of the above?

for my part, i really enjoy "jokingly hostile" atmospheres, but i don't always automatically take part in them, as it depends on who's involved, what's being joked about, my mood, etc.


i've met Fen multiple times IRL now, so my two cents: she is cautious, shy, quiet, and there is a feeling with her that you need to pull her out of her shell. she is always uncertain of herself, always saying things like "i don't know!" she is not one to direct the conversation. she asks lots of questions. she isn't judgmental nor demanding, being pretty flexible about what the group wants to do. if you apologize for something, she responds with something like "no, no don't worry about it!" to make you feel more comfortable & not guilty about it.


take that as you will

[Park]

if you apologize for something, she responds with something like "no, no don't worry about it!" to make you feel more comfortable & not guilty about it.

Is this her 'default' response regardless of what's being said/done? Is she likely to say the same to someone who's said or done something hurtful or inappropriate?

[fen]

Is this her 'default' response regardless of what's being said/done? Is she likely to say the same to someone who's said or done something hurtful or inappropriate?

Pretty much. I can't really think of a time I haven't just let things slide.
Well, there are certain instances where enough is enough, and I'll try to set boundaries and stuff, but...it's really hard for me and I don't like doing it.
I find no purpose in holding grudges and all that.