Hi, today was awesome

[Joy]

I spent it with 3 duals and one indentical.

Two of the duals were one of my best friends and his girlfriend. That part actually made me pause... I thought identity was one of the best intertype relations, but watching them... idk... One swirls into emo mode, then the other responds all emo-like, then the other one responds to the heightened emo state, and idk... endless spiral of downward emo if they don't have a rock to be like "okay, have your mood, I'm here" or whatever. Interesting.

The identical is a new friend. 15 years older than me but very awesome. I told her "sixth date" kinds of things and she was like "well yeah!" as if it made perfect sense. lol

Anyways, happy to have made a straight FEMALE friend I can really relate to. ^_^

Life is good.

[Joy]

Oh yeah, AND I got to eat the most satisfying burger ever. Yup, life is good. ^_^

[Leader]

Glad you had a wonderful time whilst children are dying of starvation and dirt poor conditions in 3rd world countries.

[Joy]

Should I have mailed them my cheeseburger?

[Leader]

No, it wouldn't have gotten there in one piece anyways....and then you would have committed yet another sin....wasting food.

Lose Lose Situation.

[Joy]

Or I could just... you know... enjoy a fun day for what it is.

[Leader]

And like... you know... not take me seriously because I just joking.

[Joy]

Yeah, I could totally do that. And you for me.

[Leader]

Yeah, I could totally do that. And you for me.

Im not

[Creepy-male]

WTF is sixth date kind of stuff?

[Joy]

Well they say there's stuff you're not supposed to talk about on a first date, like your kids and exes and finances and I have no idea what else. There's stuff you're supposed to wait until like the third date to talk about. So sixth date stuff if stuff you don't tell someone until they're relatively hooked. idk why I put it like that, I was drunk, lol. I meant stuff that I don't tell people until I know them really well, if even then. This woman is one of my boyfriend's friends, and there's stuff I specifically avoid telling that group in general, at least for now. But I can tell her anything.

[Gilly]

Well they say there's stuff you're not supposed to talk about on a first date, like your kids and exes and finances and I have no idea what else. There's stuff you're supposed to wait until like the third date to talk about. So sixth date stuff if stuff you don't tell someone until they're relatively hooked.

And thusly I ask unto ye masses: is this not something Director Abbie might have spaken?

[Joy]

I don't follow those "rules" for dating though. I do the opposite, if anything. Try to scare them away. lol

[Gilly]

AND SO YOU SEE

[jessica129]

I tend to mention ex's and finances and sex and my job and my personal life and just about anything else they want to know. Maybe that's why I'm awful at dating.

[Joy]

I usually warn anyone who's considering dating me about some stuff right off the bat. There's a lot that I don't tell people until I feel really comfortable with them though.