So what happens next?
Who has had experience with a double SLE confrontation and has lived to tell about it? Or, even better, who is an SLE and has experienced how it feels like to be in the same room as another SLE, friend or otherwise?
Going off of personal experience, SLE identical relations aren't all fun and immediate understanding as Wikisocion made it out to be. When I was at a convention, I met a girl who I have reason to believe is also and ESTp. We had all contacted each other prior due to similar interests, and now we were supposed to be going out to dinner together. She was leading a group of people, and I had arrived with an IEI friend. Within a few minutes, I started getting definite vibes of aggression from her, probably because she was feeling that I was challenging her leadership by making so many jokes and laughing it up with everyone. I backed down immediately because she was obviously the rightful lead wolf here, but still, there was a background of tension throughout the whole evening.
Also, I feel like I get similar feelings from ESTjs. I've met one ESTj who apparently couldn't rest easy until she had the upper-hand over me. We were in a group together, and she kept on striking down all of my ideas. I'm not sure if she was like that with everyone, but at that moment, it felt like I was being targeted.
So that brings me back to my original question. Can SLEs coexist peacefully (or even two EST-types), or must the less aggressive one tone down their or take on a less volatile position if they want to get along?
Also, if you've had a different experience, a positive experience, or any experience whatsoever with this situation, do tell. I'm extremely curious.