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    Fuck love.

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    Quiet love. Are you kidding me? Whenever I go out in public with the
    man I see he comments on how much more people look at him. I hate
    people looking at me. Before we went out in public together he did
    not understand what I meant when I would tell him that people look
    at me often, and a lot. Now he understands. He and I both would
    prefer others not to look upon us ergo we present them with no reasons to.

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    Sometimes I like just the partner to show PDA while acting distant at the same time.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Aquagraph View Post
    Sometimes I like just the partner to show PDA while acting distant at the same time.
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    Quiet love! Definitely quiet love.

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    Definitely a more quiet form of love. I want him to let me know that he cares, that we are safe together, and that I can share openly. I may need time to open up but if I know I can trust a person, it's a start. Going to coffee shops, just sitting together inside listening to the rain, bingewatching shows, talking about our latest obsessions, sharing creative projects and encouraging each other, talking about our day, cuddling, doing everything together. But at the same time, I guess while I want something close, I want to be my own person outside of the relationship. I'll still have my own interests, my own life, and I can be independent, but it would be nice to have someone to share it with.

    If it does get to the point of closeness, I may talk a lot about the other person, but a lot of special moments we have together will be more private. My dang 9 and merging. xD One part about being 9 which makes me want to gag, I think doesn't apply with a few exceptions until it does and, bleh. I don't want it to be big, showy, for the world to see for the sake of that. Part of me kind of wants them to think of us like a sort of dynamic duo, and when I see couples that are so perfect and seem like perfect halves to complete each other, I get kind of jealous and worry that no one like that exists for me, or maybe people like me weren't meant for that kind of relationship, because I suck with connection.
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    I get the impression that louder, more public displays are made less for the object of one's affection than they are for bystanders to see and hear. I think they often come from a place of insecurity.

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    Quote Originally Posted by The Perpetual Now View Post
    I get the impression that louder, more public displays are made less for the object of one's affection than they are for bystanders to see and hear. I think they often come from a place of insecurity.
    Most of the women I've known make noises when they are making love. I tend not to, and some have commented on that.

    I don't think the tendency to make noise comes exactly from insecurity. Rather, I think it comes from announcing a claim on a person to others nearby, since most sex in human history occurred within earshot of the other tribe members.

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    ^ i dont think it was a question of how loud you are in bed, Adam

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    Quote Originally Posted by ooo View Post
    ^ i dont think it was a question of how loud you are in bed, Adam
    ???

    I think I was just different from what they had had before. I didn't read anything into it, but maybe I should have?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Adam Strange View Post
    ???

    I think I was just different from what they had had before. I didn't read anything into it, but maybe I should have?
    aha, it's good, making noises helps to get excited and it's a symptom you are very much. I tend to talk about God when I'm super excited : )

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    quiet, loud freaks me out

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    I'd like to date someone while no one else knows, having a secret world no one gets to even peek at on a superficial level.
    I don't like the showing off excitedness that seems to come with dating, nor public display of affection.
    I don't like randos paying attention to me, blaming it on me for "attracting attention" while I am envious of ghosts' etherealness.

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    Quote Originally Posted by ooo View Post
    I tend to talk about God when I'm super excited : )
    I do this too. Poetic spirit embues one in special moments i suppose.

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    There is something about, a silent secret love that no one else understands but you two, that feels very satisfying to me. All the personalized exclusive aspects of it, nicknames, inside jokes, shared memories, all remind me how much closer we are to each other than to other people. So yea I love quiet love.

    not gonna lie though I initially thought this thread was about sex.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Adam Strange View Post
    Most of the women I've known make noises when they are making love. I tend not to, and some have commented on that.
    I thought women tended to be loud while men tend not to be. Would you say that's right?

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    I'm not sure what "loud love" and "quiet love" are. Is loud love just a verbal expression of love?

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    Subdued affection is generally preferred. My tolerance threshold for excessive hugging, kissing, and the rest is pretty low, but once it has passed the threshold, my reaction is to grin and bear it. It's all about compromise.

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    I like to think I would prefer a quiet love, but I think I need a loud love. Not overly loud and boisterous, but loud enough to be seen and you can't take you attention away from it.

    I tend to not like attention and kind of chill in the background. I prefer it. Just, I need a romantically loud guy who is not afraid to show it and naturally enjoys it. I am a closet romantic who is a bit nervous when showing love and I doubt it a lot. Other then quiet special moments, I think I really need a guy who will get up on stage, in the bright lights and crowds of people, and be not afraid to exclaim his love for me with the most loving expression and biggest smile.

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    Maybe indirect subtext that can take expressive freedoms. [In rational gamma world it is the most perplexing thing there is.]
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