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    At least going formal in writing keeps you from embarrassing yourself. Phone conversations though. . . I'm so dorky At least until I've gotten used to a person.

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    Perhaps this is weak Fi, because it's a bit weird and funny to me. Sure, there are formalities to get out of the way in the beginning stages of a relationship, but to stick to them would feel awkward. Basically, the more relaxed, confident, and informal you are, the more the other person mirrors you and becomes comfortable. I have no problem in creating or setting my desired "distance" with the other person.

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