I'm pretty sure it's your theory that doesn't match my experiences as an sp/sx. If you look at the majority of reponses to this thread you'll see that most people ideally prefer sharing the /sx/ in the same position as the other person in romantic relationships. If you really think about it, how could an sx-first find anyone other than an sx-first to match the kind of intensity and bond they're looking for? or an sx-lasts on the other hand who don't want that kind of intense bond.. they're too independant and formal for the other stackings. Speaking for sx-seconds who see the sx instinct as something fun to explore and spice up life, but it doesn't come before a social reputation/ or personal sanctuary.



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