Quote Originally Posted by redbaron View Post
yes, this too. Individuals have lots of different things to offer each other including life experience so I never write someone off based on their stacking! obviously. It's only after the fact that I look back and think "oh, that's maybe one of the reasons why we weren't connecting or why our priorities were so different".
Quote Originally Posted by Gilly View Post
Yeah I tend to just sort of feel people out, my perceptions of their instinct stacking usually align with the expected alignment towards them, but I'm definitely surprised sometimes.
True it's only in hindsight one realizes all this and it is just one aspect of interaction from all the other aspects that go into it. It's interesting to see how it all works together.