Quote Originally Posted by redbaron View Post
yes, this too. Individuals have lots of different things to offer each other including life experience so I never write someone off based on their stacking! obviously. It's only after the fact that I look back and think "oh, that's maybe one of the reasons why we weren't connecting or why our priorities were so different".
Yeah I tend to just sort of feel people out, my perceptions of their instinct stacking usually align with the expected alignment towards them, but I'm definitely surprised sometimes.