yes, this too. Individuals have lots of different things to offer each other including life experience so I never write someone off based on their stacking! obviously. It's only after the fact that I look back and think "oh, that's maybe one of the reasons why we weren't connecting or why our priorities were so different".
Yeah I tend to just sort of feel people out, my perceptions of their instinct stacking usually align with the expected alignment towards them, but I'm definitely surprised sometimes.
But, for a certainty, back then,
We loved so many, yet hated so much,
We hurt others and were hurt ourselves...
Yet even then, we ran like the wind,
Whilst our laughter echoed,
Under cerulean skies...