Quote Originally Posted by Gilly View Post
Personally I have found that people who don't share primary stacks have overall different goals and motivations and have a hard time understanding and accepting each other on an (appropriately) instinctual level. I am actually pretty attracted to sp/sx people, they feel a lot like sx/sps and I have mistaken them as such, but IME there is too much "space" between the . People who are the exact same stackings are really easy to get along with and understand, but there isn't much room for growth and really learning from each other. On the other hand this could lead to "growing together" when they really hit up against shared weaknesses when working together, and see them similarly and see the need to correct them, but it's a bit like identical relations in Socionics where everything is understood and it just kind of sits at that. In the end it depends on the individuals, I think; ultimately there is no right or wrong, but simply relations of different characters.
agreed. I'm sp/sx and the people I understand and get along with the least are sp-last. Most of my close friends are sp-first, many being sp/so which is a stacking that seems to be good for me (and mine for them).