Yes, it is the simple way, which is why it happens all the fucking time. But yet again, you've completely missed the point.
Look, you're still not understanding what we're saying, and repeating the exact same sentence over and over again does not forward the discussion. There are simply some boundaries between people that cannot be surpassed without some sort of major brain alterations, the likes of which I've already mentioned hundreds of times. Ask any failed couple who's tried to "make it work" and they'll list off several issues that the two of them were simply unable to reconcile. You're emphasizing the "possibilities" way too much, giving them much greater importance than they actually have.
It doesn't sound to me like anything, since redbaron didn't explain the specifics of the issue. You're blindly projecting your own idealistic nature of how things work upon the world, skewing the evidence presented before you into an internally inconsistent system.
Once again I ask, how many serious relationships have you been in?
If you've had experience with a real committed relationship you would understand first-hand what it's like to undergo the tremendous problems you're passing off as unwillingness instead of irrationally rationalizing everything to fit your inaccurate vision of the world.
You jumping to conclusions without knowing any of the details behind what you're talking about sure sounds judgmental to me.
You're naive and inexperienced.



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