How would you describe your relationship with them and how didpolr manifest itself (in your relationship with them)?
How would you describe your relationship with them and how didpolr manifest itself (in your relationship with them)?
I played music with one
We got along solid, though we kept not connecting in the music; he wanted to create atmosphere and be mellow and sad, I just wanted to fucking roar! He kept complaining every time things started to really kick ass; never locked in with me, just kept draping melodies and atmosphere over everything, which were actually pretty good, but I could never get a sense of power and momentum from things for as long as that was going on, and it was just relentless...
I also knew another one as a friend/acquaintance; she was really cool and I admired her a lot, but once again, we couldn't completely connect over much, really...
Maybe it's an individual person thing, these ones seemed to really be seekingin retrospect...
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This reminds me a lot of my experience jamming with my SEE friend. It always feels like he wants music to be a certain way and I just want it to be my own way. So he would try to pressure me to play something more to his liking, which frustrates me because I just wanted to play anything I could think of creatively, which was me fulfilling mydesires. This of course would irritate him because I'd refuse to conform to his
standards. Outside of music we mostly get along, but when it comes to music, it's just a huge clash of
vs.
, which just frustrates the both of us.
“We cannot change the cards we are dealt, just how we play the hand.” Randy Pausch
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