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Considering the amount of anecdotes you've had, and the amount of time you've spent together, and that you are planning on going on a trip with him, I'd guess it's relatively significant.Yes, a bit. I'm not sure how serious it is.
If he's actually said "Hey I like you" or offered you on a date, then you shouldn't have any questions.
I don't understand these questions of "I don't know how serious" - perhaps you mean whether or not he wants to marry you. But that's not the same thing as being interested in someone and wanting to spend time with them and try to see where things go. (which I'm sure is obvious).
Your agreement to spend time with him and particularly go on a road trip will/"is likely to", in his mind, imply that you're 'somewhat' interested in him as well.
Something other than it would be too much?I didn't hear a logical reason. I think it was mainly that something other than that would be a little too much to take.
I don't understand. So, there was no real reason at all? "Too much effort?"
Indeed. I think that, if anything, is more points to EJness. I think SEI and SLI are more adept at .... not being smothering in that way. Two EJs can be a bit of an amplification effect, if not an outright multiplier.Yeah, that whole "treating me like an infantile" thing... It got intensified when the two of them got together, and it made me uncomfortable, as I mentioned.
[quote]Anyway, I don't think anyone is doubting Si. It's now which of the four possible ones?
Right now it seems:
LSE-Si > ESE-Si > SEI or SLI
Give him relational advice, ethical programs, you know, your Fi stuff. If he reacts like the other Tes, there you go. If he is more assertive about his own ethical program, there you go.The aforementioned "softness." He doesn't have as much of the same sort of energy I associate with Ejs; he seems a bit more laid back so far. Oh, and Absurd doesn't relate to him.![]()
How about this, if you're up for it - compare and contrast him to Cracka?
Related - why do you think he's attracted to you? Either in general, or socionically? What do you 'provide' him that he'd like?
FWIW I have a feeling if he were a pure intratim, things wouldn't flow in the way you describe.
I don't have a point."Blame"? Um, I don't feel comfortable with them feeling repressed around me, if that's the case. I don't like thinking people are hiding things from me, parts of themselves. It would be better for us to just not hang out if that's happening, so they don't feel stifled.
...I feel like you're trying to make some point with this, something about how I should be different. Could you go ahead and just say it?
I see your nature as being somewhat of a dampener towards more earthy forms of behavior.
I asked those questions to try to understand what you saw your level as impact on him/them are.
I don't rely on the good graces of a bunch of people I don't know to provide me with repair equipment or medical emergency supplies. I'm used to things not going to plan, and people not being as generous as they could be. I mentioned my take on the dishes.How so?
This is why I asked about his level of familiarity ; if he's confident about what to expect, then that may be a factor on his reasoning, and that's something I might feel, but only if I felt confident with the area. If he's not familiar with the area, and is expecting to rely more on people's good graces or social pleasantness to get by, that may indicate something. Or not.
It could just be, also, that he's a guy. Sometimes guys think things will just work out fine like that. Sometimes they don't.
This is juxtaposed to what you said about his more uptight attitude than your own in regard to other people's cultures --- maybe that's actually a point towards ESE, or, someone who has ethics as a dominant function. Not sure.
Of course, you should post a picture and a video of him.
PS: you say you don't see the EJ energy associated with other EJs? What in your mind makes him seem like an intratim ?



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