...that INFp-ESTp couples and/or friends secretly think they are smarter than the other? The INFp because they think the ESTp's can't intuitivly grasp the things they can, and the ESTp because they think they are always right no matter what.
Sometimes I feel smarter than my ESTp boyfriend, and sometimes my ESTp dad too. I just feel they can't ever "get" what I "get". Or something...
And with the boyfriend, I always get the feeling that he is just SAYING he agrees when he actually doesn't. And I don't just get the feeling, I KNOW, cuz I look at him, and give him a look, and he gives a look back, then I let out on of those exasperated noises and he laughs.
Yes, we can communicate through looks.