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    So yeah I've pretty much run the gamut of loving and hating people in Beta quadra that I know IRL. They have felt the same towards me as well.

    My best of the best friends and my worst of the worst enemies -- all fucking Betas.

    Is this a pretty common thing? I think it makes sense because really, how do you feel so much passion of ANY nature towards people of an opposing quadra? When you're in the SAME quadra however... it's so much worse because you KNOW you COULD get along with them, maybe you have in the past, and now you DON'T.

    You understand them, you can read them, even when they're being so fucking retarded, you still IDENTIFY. Is this why I'm feeling this way and am having all of these polarizing relationships?

    My best, truest friends are: IEI-Fe, SEE, and a few LSIs. Never deserted me in my roughest times.

    My worst enemy -- a fucking LSI. And this LSI has turned IEI idiots against me. Fuckers. I am done trying to be friends, I am done with always being the one initiating. When the hell will someone initiate for ME? HUH?

    When the hell will I have to stop expressing everything I feel and going all out balls out with these pussy little IEIs responding with one sentence or two. Seriously. Stop fucking hiding and start fucking LIVING and being real witchyo self.

    This was probably more of a vent than anything.


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    Quote Originally Posted by ScarlettLux View Post
    My best of the best friends and my worst of the worst enemies -- all fucking Betas.

    You understand them, you can read them, even when they're being so fucking retarded, you still IDENTIFY.
    Is this why I'm feeling this way and am having all of these polarizing relationships?
    Well, I don't know if those are only stereotypes I'm thinking of, but I'd say it's more of a beta quadra thing, at least how you describe it. Afaik, betas tend to have this "black and white" thinking, "If you're not with us you're against us." ect. If two people meet who have such a strong opinion, it's possible that they clash, even if they're duals, mirrors, activators or identicals. Some of them might only feel alive if there is some conflict in a relationship, so maybe then don't even perceive this relationship as overly negative, but more active and challenging.
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    Quote Originally Posted by MegaDoomer View Post
    Well, I don't know if those are only stereotypes I'm thinking of, but I'd say it's more of a beta quadra thing, at least how you describe it. Afaik, betas tend to have this "black and white" thinking, "If you're not with us you're against us." ect. If two people meet who have such a strong opinion, it's possible that they clash, even if they're duals, mirrors, activators or identicals. Some of them might only feel alive if there is some conflict in a relationship, so maybe then don't even perceive this relationship as overly negative, but more active and challenging.

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    I observed this happening in Aristocratic quadras. They focus very much on palpable things, like wordly stuff, accomplishments, behavior, ideals, philosophy, etc. Concrete stuff, they don't look at people so relativistically like Democratics, as some templates (or how to name this?). I know Aristocratic Dual couples who broke-up, especially about two of them I was very concerned for being close relatives and caring about them (an IEI friend and my SLI ex). My brother (SLI) also hated my IEE ex for different reasons, all moral.

    Discussing with my little circle of Socionics enthusiasts we concluded that these types focus way too much on "real life" evaluations, we could pinpoint the reasons for dislike precisely - which have nothing to do with their type. Their ethical/aesthetical/practical values are very strong and to them the fact that they're "psychologically compatible" means close to nothing (when they are told about it) when they hit the "real" issues. Like you say, Scarlett, knowing Socionics you can identify with your enemies, then you observe these causes for conflict are unrelated to sociotype compatibility.

    Also note that Democratics can't so clearly distinguish these notions of "friend" and "enemy", so we can't speak in the same manner about attraction/repulsion inside all the quadras. Democratics interactions are based on interest, rather than values. I know someone said once (Schulman?) that things like age, religion, etc don't matter in compatible relationships, but I disagree, they do matter and Aristocratics put an emphasis on them.
    So on short, what happens to you is normal, IMO.
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    Quote Originally Posted by The Ineffable View Post
    I observed this happening in Aristocratic quadras. They focus very much on palpable things, like wordly stuff, accomplishments, behavior, ideals, philosophy, etc. Concrete stuff, they don't look at people so relativistically like Democratics, as some templates (or how to name this?). I know Aristocratic Dual couples who broke-up, especially about two of them I was very concerned for being close relatives and caring about them (an IEI friend and my SLI ex). My brother (SLI) also hated my IEE ex for different reasons, all moral.

    Discussing with my little circle of Socionics enthusiasts we concluded that these types focus way too much on "real life" evaluations, we could pinpoint the reasons for dislike precisely - which have nothing to do with their type. Their ethical/aesthetical/practical values are very strong and to them the fact that they're "psychologically compatible" means close to nothing (when they are told about it) when they hit the "real" issues. Like you say, Scarlett, knowing Socionics you can identify with your enemies, then you observe these causes for conflict are unrelated to sociotype compatibility.

    Also note that Democratics can't so clearly distinguish these notions of "friend" and "enemy", so we can't speak in the same manner about attraction/repulsion inside all the quadras. Democratics interactions are based on interest, rather than values. I know someone said once (Schulman?) that things like age, religion, etc don't matter in compatible relationships, but I disagree, they do matter and Aristocratics put an emphasis on them.
    So on short, what happens to you is normal, IMO.
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    I've fallen out with every single female EIE I've known, and I tend toward rowing with the males. The only one I don't get into cockfights with is George, and he and I used to be mortal enemies.

    In fact, with one exception, I've never had a single relationship with a Beta that didn't include a period of mutual hatred.

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    Quote Originally Posted by ScarlettLux View Post
    So yeah I've pretty much run the gamut of loving and hating people in Beta quadra that I know IRL. They have felt the same towards me as well.

    My best of the best friends and my worst of the worst enemies -- all fucking Betas.

    Is this a pretty common thing? I think it makes sense because really, how do you feel so much passion of ANY nature towards people of an opposing quadra? When you're in the SAME quadra however... it's so much worse because you KNOW you COULD get along with them, maybe you have in the past, and now you DON'T.

    You understand them, you can read them, even when they're being so fucking retarded, you still IDENTIFY. Is this why I'm feeling this way and am having all of these polarizing relationships?

    My best, truest friends are: IEI-Fe, SEE, and a few LSIs. Never deserted me in my roughest times.

    My worst enemy -- a fucking LSI. And this LSI has turned IEI idiots against me. Fuckers. I am done trying to be friends, I am done with always being the one initiating. When the hell will someone initiate for ME? HUH?

    When the hell will I have to stop expressing everything I feel and going all out balls out with these pussy little IEIs responding with one sentence or two. Seriously. Stop fucking hiding and start fucking LIVING and being real witchyo self.

    This was probably more of a vent than anything.
    i relate. my daughter is 13 years old and an ESE. we were like peas and carrots until the day she got a lap top and turned 13.

    now, we fight. probably normal. what 13 year old isn't a PITA? but ooooo can she provoke me. little wench. lol. she knows just where to strike. on the other hand, what's good for the goose is good for the gander. she gets it back. we are now on the mend and looking at alternative ways handling our conflicts, no worries.

    anyway, your quadra members know you more intimately than the outlying quadra members, so they can strike.

    however, it still is much easier to be around your quadra. just thing about your garden variety conflict relation. *shudders*

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    Honestly I dunno man. I think IEEs are pretty chilled and cool. I just don't connect with them on a real level but they are great to party with on a superficial level. Deltas I think just make me laugh cause they're so different.


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    Oh yes, I've found some who have annoyed the hell out of me, especially an LSE at work. At one point I was about to pull a grade-school "I DON'T LIKE YOU," which would have been very childish, lol. I've also been annoyed at other EIIs and IEEs. Well, I got a little annoyed at the IEE because he was desperately trying to mediate a group argument I was having with some LSE>ESE in one of my college classes.

    Perhaps the most drama I've had is with an SLI, on and off friendship. I actually did hate the guy at times, cursed at each other, fight threats, but now he's probably the closest friend I have.

    Quote Originally Posted by Blaze View Post
    i relate. my daughter is 13 years old and an ESE. we were like peas and carrots until the day she got a lap top and turned 13.

    now, we fight. probably normal. what 13 year old isn't a PITA? but ooooo can she provoke me. little wench. lol. she knows just where to strike. on the other hand, what's good for the goose is good for the gander. she gets it back. we are now on the mend and looking at alternative ways handling our conflicts, no worries.

    anyway, your quadra members know you more intimately than the outlying quadra members, so they can strike.

    however, it still is much easier to be around your quadra. just thing about your garden variety conflict relation. *shudders*

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    Quote Originally Posted by ScarlettLux View Post
    My best ... friends and ... worst enemies ... Betas.
    Maybe because betas are overrepresented among those who get close enough to earn either characteristic?
    Also, the intensity of the matter seems amplified by sex (f), club (NF) and quadra (beta).

    Also, it seems to me that some unedified LSIs can easily be a pain for everyone, including duals and each other: Strong will, narrow, small and inflexible mind, little or no empathy or sympathy, etc.
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    i think conflict with other deltas has been more about annoying eachother and getting under eachothers skin in subtle ways rather than an all out war kind of thing. like since we generally get where the other is coming from its not so much like "youre awful" but its more like "ugh pls stop that."

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    Quote Originally Posted by ScarlettLux View Post
    So yeah I've pretty much run the gamut of loving and hating people in Beta quadra that I know IRL. They have felt the same towards me as well.
    "intraquadral beta conflict" thread on socionics.ws may be relevant here:
    http://www.socionics.ws/forums/viewtopic.php?f=8&t=879
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    I fight iwth my sister a lot (EII). She drives me nuts sometimes.

    I general I get along with Deltas, but there is potential for conflict.
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    Quote Originally Posted by The Ineffable View Post
    I observed this happening in Aristocratic quadras. They focus very much on palpable things, like wordly stuff, accomplishments, behavior, ideals, philosophy, etc. Concrete stuff, they don't look at people so relativistically like Democratics, as some templates (or how to name this?). I know Aristocratic Dual couples who broke-up, especially about two of them I was very concerned for being close relatives and caring about them (an IEI friend and my SLI ex). My brother (SLI) also hated my IEE ex for different reasons, all moral.

    Discussing with my little circle of Socionics enthusiasts we concluded that these types focus way too much on "real life" evaluations, we could pinpoint the reasons for dislike precisely - which have nothing to do with their type. Their ethical/aesthetical/practical values are very strong and to them the fact that they're "psychologically compatible" means close to nothing (when they are told about it) when they hit the "real" issues. Like you say, Scarlett, knowing Socionics you can identify with your enemies, then you observe these causes for conflict are unrelated to sociotype compatibility.

    Also note that Democratics can't so clearly distinguish these notions of "friend" and "enemy", so we can't speak in the same manner about attraction/repulsion inside all the quadras. Democratics interactions are based on interest, rather than values. I know someone said once (Schulman?) that things like age, religion, etc don't matter in compatible relationships, but I disagree, they do matter and Aristocratics put an emphasis on them.
    So on short, what happens to you is normal, IMO.
    Good call on the Democratic/Aristocratic - I never thought of it applying in that particular way!

    On here, I noticed less activity in general within the Gamma quadra forum than the others, though the Gamma quadra people made lots of posts in general... I attributed that to Democratic>Aristocratic myself mentally, but not enough to point it out - as for me, I always want to hear where everyone's coming from, and though the posts from my quadra might tend to be a bit more digestible to me, it feels odd for me to purposely limit myself to those perspectives...

    As for the Democratics not focusing on worldly things - how much would you consider this more prevalent in Alpha than Gamma (if at all)? I do notice a certain pragmatism within Gamma, though the term "practicality" comes with its own separate set of implications and connotations...

    As for me personally, I never think of "enemies" or "those people", I just want to figure out where people are coming from, so I can figure out what to do from there on out...

    So wow... between valuing, valuing, and Aristocratic - Alpha, Gamma, and Delta have one of each, and Beta has all three...

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    Quote Originally Posted by woofwoofl View Post
    As for the Democratics not focusing on worldly things - how much would you consider this more prevalent in Alpha than Gamma (if at all)? I do notice a certain pragmatism within Gamma, though the term "practicality" comes with its own separate set of implications and connotations...
    These differences between Democratics and Aristocratics just jumped out to me IRL, I have not deduced them from Model A, I just noted the trend and the connections, and with the way Aristocratics are described it makes sense to me.

    Yes, I agree with you, "practical" or "real life" are improper names, I used them only as much as they refer to juding people and relationships based on social facts. Democratics are more like "I want this, you want that", "I know the truth, you don't", not like "you should be/think like this", so their conflicts are limited to specific interests (theoretical or practical). As a Democratic, when you have common interest with someone else, that doesn't make him/her "one of yours", neither the other way around ("not one of yours"), like Aristocrats, that distinction is usually not even applicable.
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    Quote Originally Posted by ScarlettLux View Post
    I think it makes sense because really, how do you feel so much passion of ANY nature towards people of an opposing quadra? When you're in the SAME quadra however... it's so much worse because you KNOW you COULD get along with them, maybe you have in the past, and now you DON'T.

    You understand them, you can read them, even when they're being so fucking retarded, you still IDENTIFY.
    yep, it can be hard to get other Betas off my radar, even ones that are very different from myself.

    one of my worst memories is from high school, having a face-off with an EIE "friend" in the middle of class in front of everyone, screaming at each other. it was in the class of a teacher whom i had had a great relationship with since early middle school, and after that fight the teacher was quite hostile and dismissive towards me (based on the EIE's b.s. claims about me), which was awful. i haven't talked to that EIE since.

    anyway i do agree with the gist of what The Ineffable said about Aristocrats. Betas and Deltas can be harsh towards one another, though they may go about it in different ways; for example, like the EIE and I, Betas may have very loud emotional showdowns, and i've seen Deltas do this sort of quiet shunning of people whom they want out of their group.

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    Quote Originally Posted by glamourama View Post
    yep, it can be hard to get other Betas off my radar, even ones that are very different from myself.

    one of my worst memories is from high school, having a face-off with an EIE "friend" in the middle of class in front of everyone, screaming at each other. it was in the class of a teacher whom i had had a great relationship with since early middle school, and after that fight the teacher was quite hostile and dismissive towards me (based on the EIE's b.s. claims about me), which was awful. i haven't talked to that EIE since.

    anyway i do agree with the gist of what The Ineffable said about Aristocrats. Betas and Deltas can be harsh towards one another, though they may go about it in different ways; for example, like the EIE and I, Betas may have very loud emotional showdowns, and i've seen Deltas do this sort of quiet shunning of people whom they want out of their group.
    Dear God that is the WORST - quiet shunning. Ugh. So wait, what do Democratics do? Are they just not as harsh? Do Gammas even hang in larger groups? I feel like they don't. Maybe just a huge ass group of SEEs


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    IEE drive me nuts because everything is always perceived, hence an open door. It seems as though nothing gets conceptualized. Their Se role is really something, too. My IEE friend kept her relationship from everyone and then, out of the blue, married him. WTH

    Anyway, she married her dual and I'm so happy for her.

    Who else....

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    The time I hung around the most betas at a time was when I was in my teens, I guess. I had a sort of love/hate friendship with an SLE. Since we were both guys, there was as much competition as there was camraderie. I kind of resented how he seemingly had a lot of status in passive ways. He could push his weight around or get something in a lowkey fashion. For whatever reason, if we were out and about, he'd get the cuter girl, or be able to talk himself out of things by just looking more solid or intimidating. I always had to be more vocal, and had to fight more often. He always said I was too cocky, funnily.

    On another note, the tables turned, and he started carrying guns.. then he (and some others) became the cocky ones. I didn't have time for any of that. I distanced myself. A few of them became straight up murderers. He never got busted for that in particular, but he and another we hung around are now in prison for rape... so it's fucked up all the same.

    In retrospect, I should have hung around his brother more. Who was probably EIE. Last time we spoke, we kind of reminisced on how screwed up everyone became, and gave each other a hug, happy that we were both alive. He didn't get along with his brother either, so maybe it was never a quadra problem.

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    I've gotten along with my fellow betas pretty peacefully and most of my close friends are beta. If there is conflict, I will admittedly get a little passive-aggressive but realize what I'm doing and try to reign back and hope no one notices (lol). Nothing's ever progressed to such an explosive level, thankfully.

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    Quote Originally Posted by mundaneday View Post
    I've gotten along with my fellow betas pretty peacefully and most of my close friends are beta. If there is conflict, I will admittedly get a little passive-aggressive but realize what I'm doing and try to reign back and hope no one notices (lol). Nothing's ever progressed to such an explosive level, thankfully.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Vois View Post
    I relate! A more-than-likely SLE (if not, he's LSI) has hated me for over a year for some comments I made in jest, but he took seriously (I've even apologized for them but he still isn't too fond of me). It's a really weird relationship we have (I'm around him a lot because my friends are his friends), because there will be moments when I'll make him laugh his ass off, or say something that he finds really interesting, and he kinda loses his stance for a second, but then it's like he remembers that he hates me and goes back into hate-mode. hahaha. It's pretty funny, actually. He used to drive me insane as well, but now I don't really mind him. He has a pretty horrible temper in general, so I don't take any of this too personally.
    Wow your life is my life. Well sort of. Yeah this LSI started hating me for making comments IN JEST!!!!!!!!!! Like damn is this some Beta ST first impression grudge thing? I also have had that experience where it was me, EIE, her LSI, and our two IEI boyfriends -- we have had the most hilarious conversations and hang outs yet she still doesn't let that change her mind.


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    I've always had a sort of steady comfort and compatibility with people in my quadra

    I wonder how much of this depends on whether the quadra values or , or, to a different extent, or - I expect Beta to have the biggest ups and downs, and for Delta to run the smoothest...

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