Dual!
Think about it. I'm the Delta NF; a mind of a person who wants relationships not to have people to influence or to have power and will over but people, family, friendships around for emotional stability. You ask how people can provide emotional stability; they can if you have the need to give, to create a microcosm of Humanity. A circle of love acceptable. In this way, I act to unite people, but never with future complaint that they are not doing something right for me and others (SeFi), but with positive potential, ever increasing hopeful adjustment of ethics and faith that different things should be tried to maintain these relations; in this way, I'm not black and white about what people do as being right or wrong as my duals are; I'm forgiving, sometimes excusing of others actions but never with emphasis on the "barrage" of problems created out of this activity (FiSe). My duals appreciate that about me, love, family, relationships they value, cohesiveness...it warms their heart and it gives me interesting people to be around.
LSE do a lot for me too. I get strait out nuts when I have to focus on my health and facts or dynamics (what to do next, sequence of decisions, considering factors, and deciding on a course of action - Te SEE also benefit from LSEs resolute and clear course of plan implementation here) and I let my duals direct me in this area;
I would rather just detach my brain from my body and let them take it to the doctor and get it all figured out without my mind knowing and stressing about what's going on, but until that happens, we'll create a symbiotic relationship.
You don't take much with you when you go, not your possessions and trinkets, nice things you collect, you do need people who love you to joke around with you, to give you attention, hugs etc.
It warms the heart of this dual pair, the unity, family, and bond. Even if the bond is not realize fully in reality, real reciprocation, it's enough sometimes to feel, from actions of others, like family members that the person loves you or has come to love you and accept you. It would be nice if when people got together that they acted on this love, like making considerable gestures to this regard, maybe giving a hug and joking back without retrain and attention to "offending" (within reasonable boundaries, or maybe not
) but just be there.