>being very methodical
Logical types are more methodical, rationals are more orderly. Irrational logicians may randomly decide to do something, but the favourable logical procedure will more often be clear to them. Rational ethicists have more difficulty understand how to do something logical correctly, but they prefer routines and schematics more than irrationals.
>And I don't actually think irrationals dislike schematic activity prese
They like and depend on it less than rationals.
>Many Si types feel that society and culture put pressure to preform under unnatural rules and rhythms
This is more what Fi/Te valuing irrationals feel about Ti/Fe rationality - Te is orientated towards the result, what way of doing things is best pragmatically, which conflicts with Ti rules and Fe social norms. With irrationality to boot, the tolerance for formal rules is lower than other types.
Se/Ni does not insist on rules as such - they're irrational functions.
>Every single quality you listed here is the same for INFj
EII are emotional - she has the ''flat affect'' especially prevalent in Te types, with their embryonic Fe in the superego.
>so these alone are not enough
She can only be ILI in my mind.
All typings are word against word, there's no empirical data to refer to. I refer you to her ''vibes'', that she is fairly unemotional, which EII are not.