How strong can the hidden agenda be? I've heard that people have the hidden agenda as a on/off system, which means it can get pretty strong at times, but totally non-existent the rest of the time.
Can a person be mistaken for having his hidden agenda in ego block because of some moments when the hidden agenda is very active?



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which translates into a conflict with my POLR
where for example, i don't want to let loose and enjoy myself because I might get hurt with an agenda related to health. Since these functions are SENSORY i.e. to do with the 5 senses and the environment I am somewhat shy when it comes to experiencing things through the senses and 'letting go' of the self-control i maintain to protect myself from harm. This would seem to be the main source of neurosis that i have such as any anxiety that may follow from snogging someone or sex itself because as an INTj - N comes before S hence any awkwardness and worry.
I have a weak here-and-now ability to enjoy the present moment where I can be more concerned with my lifetime strategy rather then day-to-day logistics.
) isn't all that strong. I can't really explain it, other then the fact that I'm just not all that great at using it. 






