Quote Originally Posted by Jonathan View Post
Having firm plans, like definitely we're going to go to Spain, isn't what Ni is. And preferring to focus on things that could happen as opposed to things that are less likely to happen...I don't think that's Ni either. Some types have firmer plans than others. I think ISj types are more likely to have definite and concrete plans, for example.

Saying "I don't know what will happen" is just being realistic. Nobody knows what will happen, no matter what their type. But leaving things up in the air may be more common with irrational types in general. In my experience, IEIs are one of the more likely types to leave things open and take things as they come; they can't be said to have "weak Ni" though.

Coming down hard on someone for not doing something that they're supposed to do isn't Ni. It might be related to being a parent rather than a type sort of thing.
You missed the point of my post; one is short sighted about things which is in the realm of Ni PoLR and one not.