Quote Originally Posted by Maritsa Darmandzhyan View Post
Ni is "something that could happen" Next year I'll go to Spain; weak ability with Ni is "I don't know what will happen in our relationship; I just don't know." Short sighteness with certain events in time, inability to picture things well from an accumulation of information available to that regard. "A fire is going to happen; I'm going to get caught cheating" Those are Ni a worry, a strike of event being foretold.
A good example of strong Ni is my mom, I didn't do my taxes on time one year because i wasn't well and she having accumulated those facts came back in a fire of frenzy and said "honey, if you don't do your taxes this this and this will happen to you." Compare that to my ESE cousin she noticed I didn't do my taxes and she said "shouldn't you do your taxes, isn't it about time you did?" Do you see the difference?
Having firm plans, like definitely we're going to go to Spain, isn't what Ni is. And preferring to focus on things that could happen as opposed to things that are less likely to happen...I don't think that's Ni either. Some types have firmer plans than others. I think ISj types are more likely to have definite and concrete plans, for example.

Saying "I don't know what will happen" is just being realistic. Nobody knows what will happen, no matter what their type. But leaving things up in the air may be more common with irrational types in general. In my experience, IEIs are one of the more likely types to leave things open and take things as they come; they can't be said to have "weak Ni" though.

Coming down hard on someone for not doing something that they're supposed to do isn't Ni. It might be related to being a parent rather than a type sort of thing.