I recently witnessed something

[Creepy-male]

Person A and Person B have find each other attractive...

Not socionics related, people do this

...and have been on a few dates.

that's typically the next step when two people find each other attractive

...that or a one night stand... or maybe possibly even shameful masturbation involving feelings about how pathetic you are.

Person A really likes Person B, but can't be sure how Person B feels bc Person B is sending mixed signals:

Once again this happens, nothing insanely new here

saying outright that he/she likes Person A, then making him/herself scarce.

What is making yourself scarce?

One day Person A contacts Person B, who does not respond...

Once again, it happens

a week later, Person A confronts Person B for clarification: Person A wants to know whether Person B likes him/her or not.

because person B thinks actions speak louder than words, and expects more commitment from person A.

Person A tells Person B that he/she likes him/her, but if the feelings are not mutual then he/she just wants to know so he/she can move on;

pretty basic stuff, doesn't want to play games, wants to get serious

Person A is tired of what he/she perceives as Person B's games.

Yea but did person A ever consider that person B may have just been busy... it does happen to people. Part of relationships is seeing your partner's side of things, and not just your own.

What would be really interesting [and probably the result of coincidence more than anything ] is if you can type them correctly from this little narrative.

I personally think, ala, my own feelings on the matter.... that person B is a little too clingy. They want immediate reciprocation, feels like no contact in a week during the starting phases of a relationship is a sign of disliking you. Person B probably has a huge need for commitment in a relationship. Person B should probably consider some alternative ideas, like maybe Person A is just busy with other things, and enjoys their time but is pre-occupied. Or perhaps Person A doesn't know how they feel exactly about the person yet and needs time to themselves to know how they feel before they get serious and committed. Or perhaps Person A is nervous and bit perfectionistic, preferring to take things slow so as not to ruin a so far pleasant relationship. Really it could be anything. Part of relationships is compromise, no one is going to come pre package as a perfect ken or barbie... that fulfills all your expectations, it takes communication and understanding. It sounds like person B is jumping the gun on judgments. Probably tired of wasting time finding the right person.

Person B probably enthusiastically jumps into relationships fully committed and serious and likes to see where they end up. They probably have been in a lot of relationships because of this attitude, and many of them failed, and they are tired of wasting the time going through the motions again. To them it probably feels really great to be in a new relationship and they start with a robust unparallel enthusiasm at the start, but they start freaking out at the signs it may not be, hyperactively responding to the littlest signals as signs that things may be going down the same road as other failed relationships.

In my mind, Person B needs to learn to relax and rediscover the joy of just being present in a relationship and enjoying it for what it is, rather than hyperactively go about it like a hunt or business transaction. Person A needs to listen and understand person B, and possibly learn to be more committed and spend more time with Person A and reciprocate communication. If Person A is unable to do this, then likely Person B should realize this and look for someone who shares this feature, and leave the relationships in a positive way - the reality is Person A is better off with someone else if Person B requires this level of commitment they are unable to give.

My guess is person B
Gamma NT or Beta ST, or potentially any extroverted type

person A
Si valuing, or potentially any introverted type (except Fi introvert)

[Creepy-]

I personally think, ala, my own feelings on the matter.... that person B is a little too clingy. They want immediate reciprocation, feels like no contact in a week during the starting phases of a relationship is a sign of disliking you. Person B probably has a huge need for commitment in a relationship. Person B should probably consider some alternative ideas, like maybe Person A is just busy with other things, and enjoys their time but is pre-occupied. Or perhaps Person A doesn't know how they feel exactly about the person yet and needs time to themselves to know how they feel before they get serious and committed. Or perhaps Person A is nervous and bit perfectionistic, preferring to take things slow so as not to ruin a so far pleasant relationship. Really it could be anything. Part of relationships is compromise, no one is going to come pre package as a perfect ken or barbie... that fulfills all your expectations, it takes communication and understanding. It sounds like person B is jumping the gun on judgments. Probably tired of wasting time finding the right person.

Person B probably enthusiastically jumps into relationships fully committed and serious and likes to see where they end up. They probably have been in a lot of relationships because of this attitude, and many of them failed, and they are tired of wasting the time going through the motions again. To them it probably feels really great to be in a new relationship and they start with a robust unparallel enthusiasm at the start, but they start freaking out at the signs it may not be, hyperactively responding to the littlest signals as signs that things may be going down the same road as other failed relationships.

In my mind, Person B needs to learn to relax and rediscover the joy of just being present in a relationship and enjoying it for what it is, rather than hyperactively go about it like a hunt or business transaction. Person A needs to listen and understand person B, and possibly learn to be more committed and spend more time with Person A and reciprocate communication. If Person A is unable to do this, then likely Person B should realize this and look for someone who shares this feature.

My guess is person B
Gamma NT or Beta ST, or potentially any extroverted type

person A
Si valuing, or potentially any introverted type (except Fi introvert)

Um... I think you have Persons A and B mixed up....

[Creepy-male]

Um... I think you have Persons A and B mixed up....

Yes I do, now that that has been clarified....

[itdoesntmatter]

Sounds like super-ego relations