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    Default Help my ESE friend find my dual.

    Okay, so.

    If you want to find your dual, your mirror is a really good starting point. Mirror's activator = dual, and activators make quick and easy friends. Anyway.

    This ESE knows OF Socionics, but does not know the theory particularly in-depth.

    How do we help her find me my dual? Gogo, T16T!

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    if your ESE friend is a super-mega ESE like Yellow she/he probably knows a lot of people. Does your ESE throw parties? That could be a great way to locate an ILE (or more) from their circle
    Or maybe just describe the type of qualities you're looking for and if your ESE is able to recognize those qualities in a friend of theirs they could get you two together
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    Quote Originally Posted by Marie84 View Post
    Or maybe just describe the type of qualities you're looking for and if your ESE is able to recognize those qualities in a friend of theirs they could get you two together
    Heh, problem: what qualities do ILEs have? I can only really think of visual things, or how duality feels like once I've settled into it.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Thanks Arthur View Post
    Heh, problem: what qualities do ILEs have? I can only really think of visual things, or how duality feels like once I've settled into it.
    hmm this might be hard to do coming from their supervisor, but I guess these could work

    *Spontaneous would be a big one
    *Spew out a lot of random ideas/chatter in conversations like, "oh, did you hear about...", "you know what would be a good idea...."
    *For the most part, they rarely put their ideas to practice, but may often expand on them in latter conversations.
    *Not stereotypically feminine/girly but not strong/dominant either.
    *Might appear awkward or inattentive to their surroundings and to a point, belongings (i.e. misplacing things a lot, leaving things around that they forgot to put away etc).
    *May seem like their mind is "somewhere else" at times
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    Nope, all of those are completely spot on

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    Quote Originally Posted by Thanks Arthur View Post
    Okay, so.

    If you want to find your dual, your mirror is a really good starting point. Mirror's activator = dual, and activators make quick and easy friends. Anyway.
    Interesting. The problem though is that some types interests are less coincidental than others. For example, I am ILI, my dual is SEE and my mirror is LIE. LIE and SEE interests are far removed, probably only connected by a love of territory. The SEE controlling the floor and the LIE controlling the top.
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    *shrug*

    I'm not good at doubting things when I'm inspired to take action, but thanks for the word of caution

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    Attempt #1 turned out to be SEI.

    Bump!!!

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    now that you know what we look like arthur, just look very closely wherever you are and you will find your ILE. eventually.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Blaze View Post
    now that you know what we look like arthur, just look very closely wherever you are and you will find your ILE. eventually.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Blaze View Post
    now that you know what we look like arthur, just look very closely wherever you are and you will find your ILE. eventually.
    The problem is that nowhere I tend to be really exposes me to people, let alone girls, let alone ILE girls.

    I'm just increasing the efficiency of the process by calling in other, more social contacts.

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