I just realized I know FOUR SLE-ESI marriages, all of which are male SLEs with female ESIs. The sad thing is, they are all (well three for certain) unhappy. One couple is divorced. Anyway, but I was thinking how interesting it is that I know more SLE-ESI marriages than I do SLE-IEI. I'm wondering if it's because ESIs are kinda bitchy and hard to get so SLEs see them as a challenge. Also, the ESI takes care of the Fi for the SLE. And if the ESI is a fighter at all, the SLE sees them as a worthy opponent.