I'll let WA post her experiences first before chipping in myself
That said, for context, pretty tame (can SEIs even do anything else?) first date. Went to see Despicable Me and then got horrible healthy food that made me feel sick![]()
I'll let WA post her experiences first before chipping in myself
That said, for context, pretty tame (can SEIs even do anything else?) first date. Went to see Despicable Me and then got horrible healthy food that made me feel sick![]()
ok but my date isn't until about 36 hours from now!lol
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I am nothing if not a patient man![]()
'Zactly, just to *really* confuse people![]()
How'd you meet him then? And what prompted the date?
Do tell!
Well it's nothing too exciting...
I saw him on a dating site. He looks cute (in the photo provided at least), and things he wrote in his profile seemed pretty easygoing and things i could relate to, so I emailed him. I guess he liked the way I look as well and we had a lot to talk about, so we were going to continue the conversation in person.
I know demeanor (and looks) can be totally different in person, but we'll see. I'll try not to be too critical myself.
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I would never, ever date another XXTj
It seems like incest : /
LOL @ Brian's fix!!!
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no
Mm. Second date.
Today reminded me why I initially signed up on gk2gk and not some "mainstream" scam site. I was ILE hunting.
I dunno, I'm probably just in a bad mood today, but I had to drag myself out, wound up having a good time, then had a closure sort of chat with that ILE that the relationship screwy was happening with, and now... I don't know, I'm back to feeling weary of the whole courtship process. Especially with someone who is not my vibrant and vital, initiative-taking, flirtatious dual; all traits which take a great deal of pressure off me to not be me or overextend myself.
That ILE girl just... yeah. It's like getting dazzled. Everything else just loses its lustre in comparison. Plus, it was a pretty solemn chat, sort of like the ending to Of Mice And Men. So who knows, maybe I'm just in a bit of a funk and it's exacerbating my misgivings. Or maybe I should listen to them, since melancholy spells tend to leave one with an unfortunately unforgivingly stark look at reality.
...nah
And holy wow this girl is my Identical for sure. She had a total Te PoLR moment the other night on MSN. It's somewhere between fascinating and boring seeing someone take the same jabs at themselves, make the same jokes, have the same outlooks, insecurities, etc, etc. Fascinating because it's almost scary how alike me she seems, boring because I highly doubt she could ever really surprise me with anything.
Very jaded and blasé, right?
Still, things are flowing comfortingly easily. Today was a lot more relaxed than last weekend, and we both talked about equally, I would guess. I got a goodbye hugs out of her. I feel satisfactorily accomplished.
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