well?
i'm soooo tired out. and stressed. and out of balance. i just can't seem to get moving in a healthy direction. i need help!
well?
i'm soooo tired out. and stressed. and out of balance. i just can't seem to get moving in a healthy direction. i need help!
ILE
those who are easily shocked.....should be shocked more often
what have u been doing lately that's making you so fucked up? still got a man? the oldest girl is a teenager now right? is that part of your stress?
Last edited by bg; 10-11-2010 at 03:13 AM.
I know ur asking for Si not an interrogation, I just want to understand the reasons so that i can help u find the best ways to get that Si (and what's gunna be fuckin it up)
Last edited by bg; 10-11-2010 at 02:58 AM.
a lot of good new really, just not feeling that good. well i got a promotion and bought a new house. getting there on these two things took a lot out of me. now i'm in it with the new job which is management again. i'm just so tired. i know i would feel better if i would exercise and eat right but i can't seem to get going. it's hard to stop thinking about work and what i'm going to do about this or that. i feel like i'm totally out of balance.
ILE
those who are easily shocked.....should be shocked more often
Try not to feel too bad about not eating well. At the moment you've got it as an obligation, or a responsibility; IOW it's This Thing that you're not living up to and that sort of stuff tends to foster bad feelings in anyone.
The easiest way to deal with any such self-imposed tasks is to flip 'em around and turn them into a fun task. For me, I like turning things into puzzles or intellectual "challenges" (even if they're really simplistic like "make a brainstorm of things to eat"). I don't know what works for you.
Also if it makes you feel better I've been trying to fix my diet tooYou do not suffer alone, Blaze!
LOL, I don't know if you can "manufacture your own Si". Someone else just has to give you some; sorry. Maybe you can try simple things like resting and not getting up and going in the morning, right away, but getting up early and trying to stay in bed and feeling your sheets; get soft sheets and try to take a few extra minute in bed to enjoy it. I seem to have the same inability to enjoy rest as you do, as it seems. My ESE cousin, who is living with me now, reminds me not to get up and go, but to stay in and have coffee in bed sometimes.
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Dual type(as per tcaudilllg)
Enneagram 2w1sw(1w9) helps others to live up to their own standards of what a good person is and is very behind the scenes in the process.
Tritype 1-2-6 stacking sp/sx
I'm constantly looking to align the real with the ideal.I've been more oriented toward being overly idealistic by expecting the real to match the ideal. My thinking side is dominent. The result is that sometimes I can be overly impersonal or self-centered in my approach, not being understanding of others in the process and simply thinking "you should do this" or "everyone should follor this rule"..."regardless of how they feel or where they're coming from"which just isn't a good attitude to have. It is a way, though, to give oneself an artificial sense of self-justification. LSE
Best description of functions:
http://socionicsstudy.blogspot.com/2...functions.html