wtf? Sam, seriously. Why do you project on people so much? Is this really necessary. In the first quote, I don't know how you can possibly construe it as being transgendered or being insecure about being transgendered. It actually makes me wonder if you know what the word transgender means.

Second, I don't think a guy who refers to himself as "demure" is too worried about channeling his inner sensitivity.

Third, some of the things you're ranting to him about are things that he feels are important parts of who he is and how he interacts with people (to shed light on his personality type). Now, if he wrote an entire post "channeling his inner gay" or being a "better person" then he would be posing and would reveal nothing at all interesting about his type.

Fun fact: I consider myself to be a good person and not a "bad girl" type at all. However, I completely agree with some of the sentiments here. When people litter, my thought is "There are tons of garbage cans around the city, save you trash for 3 meters and put it where it belongs". I don't go as far as to say they're a filthy animal, but I do tend to think pretty poorly of those people. Expressing anger at people who dirty up your home because they're too lazy to keep their garbage until they get to a garbage can is not a commentary about sensitive or gay feelings. Calling those people animals is also not a commentary about sensitive or gay feelings. Unless you want to argue that the filthy animals who won't put their garbage in a garbage can are universally sensitive gay people.

Similarly with the driving. I don't drive myself, but when I'm a passenger in a car and the people in the fast lane refuse to switch lanes to yeild to faster-moving traffic, it also annoys the shit out of me. That defeats the purpose of the fast lane. Tailgating isn't really the best response (dangerous really, because if the driver in front of you is already driving like an ass hat, odds are good they'll respond to danger like an ass hat too), but it's hardly something to go on a rant about.

You really love to point this homophobe finger at a lot of people, BnD, which is kind of hypocritical for someone who is telling a guy to stop being morally superior.