Quote Originally Posted by carrina View Post
I almost understand the caregiver attitudes and then i date an SLI and cringe. I'm a grown ass woman please do not even try cutting my steak for me i will put you in friend zone so quick...
Also, when people try to court me assertively my response internally "HELPPP"
Lmao yeah the romantic attitudes are very accurate.
This one made me laugh, haha!
My ILE brother always looks like he needed help with cutting his steak, hahaha. Sometimes he even has troubles with just preparing a Sandwich, haha! The Si-seeking is real.

I could see many Aggressors putting the Caretaker into the friendzone first, but I've noticed most (male) Beta Aggressors end up allowing the (female) Caretaker (usually Alpha) to become a romantic partner, because they have been simply persistent and pretty enough, haha. This dynamic is the most common with LSI-Ti guys and ESE women who relentlessly did not leave them alone.
Perhaps Gammas are less prone to giving in like that, because of their Fi valuing?

And yes, I also used to not be able to put into words what it is I am truly looking for, while knowing exactly what it is not, haha.
I'll just quote this:
They know on an almost subliminal level exactly who they are looking for, and anyone who does not fit the bill will be subjected to a rather flakey, hot-cold game of courting tag.