
Originally Posted by
hatesyardwork
Not selfish, it's all you can do and all you can be. It is what turns you on. We are not Se ego's, we think too much, and love to do so. Dragging the shit out, I love it and I know how frustrating it is for duals, but lack of patience shows weakness, or insincerity. I can't say it's manipulative, because for me it's reflexive, I can't be any other way. They often give up but I can't really NOT be passive and restrained, it feels natural and turns me on, and turns them on I have found. Often it plays out to an outright confrontation where essentially they throw themselves at me. She and I played it to the hilt and it's time to dual. They can't wait anymore, and you can't hold out anymore. This is the most satisfying thing ever.......when you see YOUR foresight realized with someone because you now feel safe allowing yourself be vulnerable because they put the work in and the sincerity is certain...... it's time to reward them with the only thing my autonomy values, and that is myself.