Quote Originally Posted by hatesyardwork View Post
It's building, sustaining and peaking interest in both types, because it's all in your head........and the Ni is also protecting himself from rejection (sensitive) and getting an ego boost from the attraction which is building in him because he feels wanted and desired by the forceful Se. The Se attraction is building if there is any substance to the romance style of wanting someone worthy. Aggressor/Victim in a nutshell.
Previously, I've dreamt about a handsome male SEE stalking me, haha. Your description reminded me of that dream.
I was at some mall with a female friend, and she kept looking over and pointing at that handsome guy on the other side of the room, who kept staring at me constantly. Usually, I either get annoyed or creeped out by some random guy staring at me, but because this one was somewhat familiar to me and exhibited an "Aggressor" vibe, I actually experienced delight in his attention. Like you said, the Ni type gets an interesting ego boost from feeling desired by a forceful Se type. I've also enjoyed seeing him missing the elevator I was in at some point; it was one made out of glass, so I could see him standing there, looking both frustrated and invigorated, because me getting away gave him a challenge. He kept showing up at each elevator stop, missing me by just a second each time, chasing me that way, haha. His pursuit gave me some kind of deeper enjoyment, without it being selfish; because I was expecting him to catch up eventually, I was looking forward to that. Though as long as that game kept going on, it was exciting to me.