Vote on her type!
Vote on her type!
Goldilocks clearly uses Ni and Fe in the way she talks so i say IEI!
This Frog runs on Sugar!
Do you have a feel for what you identified with in Delta that you don't (or might not) identify with now?
Just in case some of you dont realise, goldilocks used to be called suzzy. Suzzy (goldilocks) is my mother.
She isnt your typical mother. We have wonderful conversations over coffee. Just this week we had an indepth conversation of our view on time. Mum says her most beautiful moments of life are when she stops time and looks around and takes everything in.
She has a good understanding of feelings, and believes everyone is entitled to their feelings. But she doesnt let hers control her. In fact sometime she can come across as a thinking type. But we at home all know she isnt.
She gazes off into her own world very often. When you ask her what shes doing or thinking, its all about comtemplation and time out.
Best I can tell, you make a really good case for IEI.
And, rest assured, you're not the only one thinking "I'm not a Maritsa."
I guess I just find something interesting in your transition from an INFj self-typing to INFp. Maybe they're more similar than I imagine, but I'd think their heads work pretty differently. Guess I was kinda nosily curious if you felt something dramatically changed within yourself, or if you were more looking at yourself from a different perspective.
I disagree. All intuitives do what was in that description from time to time, heck perhaps all types do that at times, we all have our daydreamy moments.
I remember reading stuff like that before, about daydreaming, etc, and relating a lot to it, and thus was thinking i'm IEI, but that sort of description does not capture the essence of IEI well at all.
The way i think of IEI is (though tbh i dont understand them very well at all), they have this constant thought process whereby they are forming one-dimensional stream of consciousness stories in their head about whatever thing comes their way, and that's why they seem so dreamy from the outside, but they are actually very perceptive and dont actually get lost in their thoughts the way Ne-egos can. This goes for Ni-egos in general, I think.
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The sites you posted seems to deal more with Jungian definitions than Socionics ones, so it could give conflicting impressions of the types.
IMO these are much better sites for learning about Model A Socionics
Socionics in the West
Wikisocion
Main Page - WSWiki
Google Translate
Socionics.org
Google Translate
I'm not really sure what type you are, Suzzy; from your videos I thought perhaps IEI but I'm really not sure if you're Se seeking or Se PoLR
Maritsa is a very obvious EIE IMHO, so even if, say, you were an IEI and thus, her mirror, it would be difficult to relate to the energy and forwardness of an Ej.I guess you all know that I do not relate well to Maritsa though, who claims to be INFj, nor do I relate to the way she leads the Delta lounge thread into "us INFj's all need Si" on occasions. Let's just say that if she is then I will definitely say that I am not - we just irritate one another too much.
I pretty much find it easier to relate to my business on a superficial basis than IEE's, for example. Internally mirrors are easier to relate to but externally the opposing temperaments can create a divide in terms of being able to relate to one another.
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Yes http://gallery.socionix.com is an incredible VI tool. Not only does it show the people of each type, but also the vast amount of similarity and featured expression of each type. It's extremely difficult not to notice those similarities in most people, compared to other VI galleries that are much smaller and specific.
I didn't forget it, I just think it's an inaccurate mess, and I highly disagree with the VI list being accurate, Ricks, Expats, Niffweeds and Krigs famous peoples typings have been the most accurate to Model A IMHO
Ashton's site is.....a more unorthodox form of typology
I couldn't watch them since they're set to private
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I agree with all of the above about how goldilocks using sensing. I also want to contribute my own thoughts and observations.
The other day when i was out with goldilocks and we were buying some new cushions goldilocks had chosen a cushions that she liked but then when i said "do you think its the right colour?" she halted and said "oh isn't it the right colour, do you think its to red or pink or just won't look good?" and got all confused.
Sensing seems to be the area people can help goldilocks in. She accepts the help happily.
She does love her little comfy boots and wears them till they fall apart.
She isn't about power or control.
Last edited by twitch; 10-04-2010 at 09:16 AM.
So i had a few more thoughts about Goldilocks. here they are.
She likes nature and likes to stop to take it in when she remembers.
She can use colour in interior design but knows others can be even better at it than her.
Her husband says "she doesnt have any sensing!" <<lol
She likes good tasting food but is not good at creating it herself.
Usually orders the same food over and over at restaurants and is hesitant to try anything new.
She has difficulty knowing if she is hungry or not or how much is enough.
She is attracted to her husbands vibrancy. The fact he is not afraid of big hurdles in life and is quite capable of achieving things. She says she saw his goodness/potential/his love of life/good intentions, bouncing soul. He was a bright shining star, good and brave in areas that she is not.
I'm rearing towards IEI, even more so after I read your post about emotions in the Beta area, but I wouldn't rule out EII. You at least come off like a Harmonizing subtype type in the DCNH from what I read
I would say it's obvious from the videos that GL's is not strong at Se or an extrovert; she has a very calm, gentle, disposition
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