me: so, you want a manual?
LSE: Yes
I saved your list though, but I need a full manual.
me: hahaha <3
have you learned anything that you would add to the manual?
LSE: Hmmmmmmmmm
For you specifically
Tell you you're pretty every day.
Tell you to relax
and slow down
Remind you to take your meds.
Cuddles.
Make sure you're happy.
Ask if there is anything I can do right now.
Sex.
Making sure I try not to say silly things to you that might get misinterpreted.
Scratching your itch.
Hmmmmmm
What else ...
Laughing with you.
Doing things together.
Talking through things.
me: does most of the stuff come naturally?
LSE: Helping you out.
me: or did you have to learn anything?
LSE: Oh Naturally.
I don't think I actually "learnt" anything...
Except I don't think I realised how sensitive you are.
I have had to learn that.
me: yes <3
do you care if i put any of this in that thread?
LSE: You can teach me.
Go ahead.
me: hmm, is there any other information i should include?
more bullet points to the manual?
LSE: Mmmmmmm
Ask them what they want
But don't rely on an answer. Have a plan of what to do if they don't know.
Touch is the most important sense.
Touch them often.
me: aww
i like that