Caring for your Delta NF (INFj & ENFp)

[Park]

The title of this thread is misleading and contradicts the OP. I was hoping we were gonna talk about how we take care of our Delta NFs, what things we do for them, how we treat our queens, how we show our love etc.

The title of this thread makes me feel like a plant or pet lol

Excellent. Proves you're an infantile.

Caring for your Delta NF



Step 1: Add water
Step 2: Add Subway

Exactly, only those are not the correct steps.

[Suz]

The title of this thread is misleading and contradicts the OP. I was hoping we were gonna talk about how we take care of our Delta NFs, what things we do for them, how we treat our queens, how we show our love etc.

Please share this. . .I want to know.

[UDP]

I guess in answer to your question though, in terms of caring for a delta NF speaking for me as well as my delta NF sister, I would say the best thing is to be supportive and thoughtful but not too overbearing or clingy. We need to be cared for (even if we dont recognize or admit it), and we appreciate it but we love doing our own thing too because we have all these interests we want to develop. In fact the potential clinginess/controlling has been one of the things that's made me hesitant about relationships thus far.

But also, I would love it if my S.O. would be interested in being involved in those interests with me too, so its not just about that.

Yeah, that's a curious line to walk. not smothering but not being too distant. showing desire but now being too possessive. Etc

The title of this thread is misleading and contradicts the OP. I was hoping we were gonna talk about how we take care of our Delta NFs, what things we do for them, how we treat our queens, how we show our love etc.

This thread isn't really set in stone.

If you want to contribute that to the thread, go ahead.


I didn't want it to be dictated "here is how to care for a delta NF", I wanted it to be a discussion about things I've found in my experiences and relationships, and other people doing the same thing. There are a lot of fine points that have been coming up for me lately, especially actually being closer to NFs as of late.