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    Quote Originally Posted by LokiVanguard View Post
    No, but the more you tend to repeat the "There's only one SLI" tagline, the more people will believe it.
    That assumes that Ezra has credibility. You should be careful about being so hasty with such assumptions.

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    the type that is stubbornly opinionated and not willing to imagine the alternative

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    Right now I don't have conflict with anybody on this forum. In the past there have been some people who have rubbed me the wrong way. Lately the forum seems to have mellowed out- the worst offenders are either gone or not posting.
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    I get rough around idiots and dregs of society. What can I say?

    irl, I am not a fan of touchy feely persons. While tenderness is a strength unto itself, pure strength and resolve ought to be respected.

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    Quote Originally Posted by yeves View Post
    the type that is stubbornly opinionated and not willing to imagine the alternative
    Same :/

    type itself doesn't matter to me.
    Important to note! People who share "indentical" socionics TIMs won't necessarily appear to be very similar, since they have have different backgrounds, experiences, capabilities, genetics, as well as different types in other typological systems (enneagram, instinctual variants, etc.) all of which also have a sway on compatibility and identification. Thus, Socionics type "identicals" won't necessarily be identical i.e. highly similar to each other, and not all people of "dual" types will seem interesting, attractive and appealing to each other.

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    The main types I have conflicts on forums are "moderator type". Only because they have a possibility to force me create other accounts.
    I don't see how someone on forums used for fun may to make a real conflict. Sometimes people call each other by different "bad" words, but no one gets real harm.
    Types examples: video bloggers, actors

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    Quote Originally Posted by Sol View Post
    The main types I have conflicts on forums are "moderator type". Only because they have a possibility to force me create other accounts.
    I don't see how someone on forums used for fun may to make a real conflict. Sometimes people call each other by different "bad" words, but no one gets real harm.
    How many accounts have you had???

    I agree with this for the most part. I have had fun with some conflict here and no one has really hurt my feelings on this forum but I think there might be people who are hurt by some things others say about them or to them. Especially when certain members use past posts or private messages (vulnerable ones) to try and humiliate people publicly.

    In those cases I have taken the "victims" side purely out of irritation at the one using personal information to demean someone. Without exposing some level of vulnerability how are people going to see how different types process and use their strongest/weakest functions? It is not really an open atmosphere of total acceptance around here but neither are most of the spiritual, enneragram, and new age type groups I have explored over the years. At least this site is not marketed as a safe space to deal with your issues like some of those were but when you did not live up to their ideals you were treated like a leper.

    I know I have not been an angel here but sometimes when I poke people I do feel a bit of remorse (but not always) since I did it as a reaction and didn't think about the effect it might have had in the moment.

    Still not your dual though. <-- that was not directed at you ftr. I don't think you have any doubt about this.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Aylen View Post
    How many accounts have you had?
    At one forum max was probably about 10, without details why.

    I think there might be people who are hurt by some things others say
    Sometimes people need relate easier to just words of people from wich they depend in nothing.
    Types examples: video bloggers, actors

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    On this forum? Everybody is pretty nice and civil

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    There isn't very many assholes on this forum compared to others because most of them have been darwined out. The nature of socionics is also more likely to attract more intelligent, self-aware people.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Aylen View Post
    I know I have not been an angel here but sometimes when I poke people I do feel a bit of remorse (but not always) since I did it as a reaction and didn't think about the effect it might have had in the moment.
    Lol, I don't see your pokes as harmful

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    Quote Originally Posted by Myst View Post
    Lol, I don't see your pokes as harmful
    Heh, I will poke, then send you an inspirational song and possibly sprinkle you with faerydust. I don't mean to hurt someone even though I do tend to notice people's vulnerable spots and could if I were malevolent but I am benevolent. IRL, I do tease my friends and family a lot but they love it.

    When I am upset I don't take pokes. I might take swings. Metaphorically of course.

    An old woman told me that I was a little imp because I was so mischievous. Sometimes she would look at me and ask, "what are you smiling about?" and I would not even realize I had been smiling.


    This reminds me...

    I had a family member (by marriage). He was more than a couple decades older than me and loved to share stories of his youth, when he was a boxer. He could knock someone's teeth out (not in the ring) then take them to the dentist after and they still loved him. :/ He grew up in NYC in a time where you could get away with battery and not go to jail. People go to jail for far less now. Sometimes just for using words to make threats. I think it is something sort of ingrained in us in schools now. To respect and not bully.

    He never hit women though and he had a strong code of morals. He mostly hit people whose morals and attitudes he did not agree with. I never considered that he was fighting because of morals and not just to be a dick. He could still be a bully too even when he was older because I witnessed him intimidating men half his age and I never really could connect to him because he thought I had bad morals or something like that. He did not like the way I behaved most of the time.

    I am starting to wonder if he was LSE. I keep going back and forth between LSE and EIE for him. I was always challenging him on one thing or another and he said I lacked respect but I didn't respect some of his words or actions and I was not going to kiss up to him like everyone else did. I either stayed clear of him or spoke my mind.

    I think part of the reason I thought he was EIE for some time is that people adored him. He could control the whole room and people sucked up to him like he decided their social fate. He also did a lot for the homeless and poor, often funding the whole thing himself, which I did respect a lot but didn't really tell him until it was too late. We just never "bonded". Most things are starting to point to LSE.


    Hahah I went on a tangent. I had more weird dreams last night and after weird dreams I am all over the place.

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    Quote Originally Posted by summerprincess View Post
    On this forum? Everybody is pretty nice and civil
    Well for now.

    Let's hope it stays this way because it's history has been rather tumultuous.
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    Quote Originally Posted by chips and underwear View Post
    Well for now.

    Let's hope it stays this way because it's history has been rather tumultuous.
    Maybe I shouldn't have said that. I might have jinxed things.
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    Quote Originally Posted by chips and underwear View Post
    Maybe I shouldn't have said that. I might have jinxed things.
    Quoting oneself is a good way to improve your post count.
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