What do you LIKE about your conflictor?

[ClownsandEntropy]

SEEs are good at... doing what they want?

[Jenna]

Hahahaha before I saw what you posted I was going to say hard working.
But yeah. My dad is LSE (a very unhealthy one at that) and while it has been verrrry difficult growing up with him, I do admire him. He is stable and responsible, which is a lot more than I can say about my EIE mom.
A few years ago I got really mad at him and told him I am going to call him tin man until he decides to be nice to everyone, especially his daughters. But it's another thing I kind of secretly admire (though mistreating your children is never okay), only because it seems like nothing hurts him. Like a real life chuck norris.

[DirectorAbbie]

But yeah. My dad is LSE (a very unhealthy one at that)...EIE mom.

Well, no wonder.

[Jenna]

But yeah. My dad is LSE (a very unhealthy one at that)...EIE mom.

Well, no wonder.

yeah, decades of illicit drugs + bipolar + ENFj = not very pretty. she is kind of entertaining though.

[Beautiful sky]

I admire my conflictors for being:

Impulsive
Spontaneous -they can take off and go do something for fun without any plans and don't need to stick to them
Fun loving
Emotionally gentle
Thinking of health issues
Adventurous
Aesthetic
Sensual
Being concerned with strength and power, internal visions of them selves and their relation with the greater spiritual nature.
Not planning things always
Not being as workaholic as my duals -slower
For recanting memories of events with such detail, it fascinates me.
For their paranoia (it must serve some purpose in "protecting" their dual as such an instinct is ultimately served to do). My duals are paranoid too, but instead of acting, they shut down and remove themselves from the scene. (Part of Negativist type thinking, except with a lot more Se than my dual).
Really knowing how to enjoy good food, like lobster, by as much of it as they can have (live in the moment kind of thing I don't always do).
Concerned with recording the events of their family to have for later generations in a way.
Not always caring about money (what a physical and burdensome thing)

[urlock]

I have respect for independence from my "strong" side of tim

[Shazaam]

People like them faster.

This isn't true. I am hated as much as anybody. In high school/college I had no friends, nobody looked after me, stuck out for me or defended me and if they tried it always felt like they were being smug, condescending and sarcastic about it.

More accurately speaking, your Fi-valuing genuinely causes others to start wars more than my Fe-ness. Fe can be very ....dignified. But let's not call that them actually liking me.

Liking somebody else will always be incredibly rare. I think it's supposed to be that way. Of course I have beloved individuals who like and love me but people don't generally like me more than they like you. I'm barely understood here most of the time.

I refuse to believe psychologists when they tell me that I'm more well-liked than I think I am. Saying the most 'morally correct' thing to try and boost up my supposed "low self-esteem" so I will give them money so they can spend it on other things to make themselves stronger. The lack of honesty makes me want to eat out their eyeballs. I know how 99.99999999% people really think about me and how they gossip about me behind my back (and everybody else) and how jealous and hateful people get lol.

I want it to be this way because it makes love all the more grand. I'm actually not pitying myself or whining.

[somavision]

Any personality traits that you wish you had in yourself that you truly admire or praise about your conflictor?

commitment, confidence, focus.... just not in the ways that LSI's tend to use these qualities...

[Ink]

ENFPs: Sensitive, empathic, creative/original folks who mean well.