You are IEI? There is nothing fun about IEIs for SLEs.
IEIs are so lost in their own worlds that SLEs forget their guard around them (how can they know how dangerous IEIs really are, they seem nice at first?) and then, somehow they allow the IEI too close, and sooner or later, they will start to care about another human being

just because they forget to fight them! It makes them feel good (unintentionally), and the good feel will make them see meaning in life and they'll slow down and even start to enjoy living, instead of constantly fighting, but THEY didn't make it happen. It means the SLE has lost control, and you know how important control is for the SLE. IEIs are like cryptonite for SLEs. Who can say anything positive about cryptonite?