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    Quote Originally Posted by ananke View Post
    You are IEI? There is nothing fun about IEIs for SLEs.
    IEIs are so lost in their own worlds that SLEs forget their guard around them (how can they know how dangerous IEIs really are, they seem nice at first?) and then, somehow they allow the IEI too close, and sooner or later, they will start to care about another human being just because they forget to fight them! It makes them feel good (unintentionally), and the good feel will make them see meaning in life and they'll slow down and even start to enjoy living, instead of constantly fighting, but THEY didn't make it happen. It means the SLE has lost control, and you know how important control is for the SLE. IEIs are like cryptonite for SLEs. Who can say anything positive about cryptonite?
    That's kinda cool

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    Quote Originally Posted by Ryu View Post
    you know, they're weird.
    huh?

    Quote Originally Posted by discojoe View Post
    The insane drama.
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    Dual type (as per tcaudilllg)
    Enneagram 2w1sw(1w9) helps others to live up to their own standards of what a good person is and is very behind the scenes in the process.
    Tritype 1-2-6 stacking sp/sx


    I'm constantly looking to align the real with the ideal.I've been more oriented toward being overly idealistic by expecting the real to match the ideal. My thinking side is dominent. The result is that sometimes I can be overly impersonal or self-centered in my approach, not being understanding of others in the process and simply thinking "you should do this" or "everyone should follor this rule"..."regardless of how they feel or where they're coming from"which just isn't a good attitude to have. It is a way, though, to give oneself an artificial sense of self-justification. LSE

    Best description of functions:
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    Quote Originally Posted by silverchris9 View Post
    Funny, I feel the same loss of control thing, except its internal control rather than external control. In fact, I was having this conversation with an SLE about how I was very selective about whose opinion I decided to care about, because if I care about your opinion then you have a measure of control over me, and I don't like other people having control of me. I like to always have the right to completely ignore whatever other people tell me to do/think/be/anything. When you let other people in you lose that right of refusal.
    Control is a defense mechanism, not a way of living. If someone is competant enough and gentle (not in physical sense; in an emotional sense) enough for me to relinquish control, I want to. Being in comtrol is a way to deal with incompetant roughnecks.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Ritella View Post
    Over here, we'll put up with (almost) all of your crap. You just have to use the secret phrase: "I don't value it. It's related to <insert random element here>, which is not in my quadra."
    Quote Originally Posted by Aquagraph View Post
    Abbie is so boring and rigid it's awesome instead of boring and rigid. She seems so practical and down-to-the-ground.

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    Quote Originally Posted by aixelsyd View Post
    They are evil. And some of them even kill people.
    Quiet or I'll kill you slowly with love and kindness, your kryptonite.

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