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    ISTp guys in NYC. Anyone know one? Around 30? Maybe this sounds ridiculous, but it's so hard to find these guys in real life....

    I'm continuing to look, but would be nice if someone here is one, or knows one

    Maybe we can all think of the types we know in different states and help one another out?
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    Go on a dating site and I will tell you which ones are ISTp...easy. Go to basketball games and to the park as well.
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    NYC isn't a small town. You can find some SLI guys there
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    lol, I'm just laughing at myself here.

    I wish I liked basketball. A lot of them are super into that it seems. Yet I don't know anyone who would even go w/ me to something like that...guess I could stalk them at the gym but that seems odd...hmmm...

    I've been trying to find them online dating (and I have found some before), but I'm just not seeing that ISTp expression lately.

    Haven't really tried parks...hmmm.

    Yeah you're right Ryu. I think we're just in completely different circles and parts of town.

    Thanks for the help guys and any other ideas are totally appreciated!
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    Quote Originally Posted by jewels View Post
    lol, I'm just laughing at myself here.

    I wish I liked basketball. A lot of them are super into that it seems. Yet I don't know anyone who would even go w/ me to something like that...guess I could stalk them at the gym but that seems odd...hmmm...

    I've been trying to find them online dating (and I have found some before), but I'm just not seeing that ISTp expression lately.

    Haven't really tried parks...hmmm.

    Yeah you're right Ryu. I think we're just in completely different circles and parts of town.

    Thanks for the help guys and any other ideas are totally appreciated!
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    Quote Originally Posted by jewels View Post
    lol, I'm just laughing at myself here.

    I wish I liked basketball. A lot of them are super into that it seems. Yet I don't know anyone who would even go w/ me to something like that...guess I could stalk them at the gym but that seems odd...hmmm...

    I've been trying to find them online dating (and I have found some before), but I'm just not seeing that ISTp expression lately.

    Haven't really tried parks...hmmm.

    Yeah you're right Ryu. I think we're just in completely different circles and parts of town.

    Thanks for the help guys and any other ideas are totally appreciated!

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    Quote Originally Posted by jewels View Post
    ISTp guys in NYC. Anyone know one? Around 30? Maybe this sounds ridiculous, but it's so hard to find these guys in real life....

    I'm continuing to look, but would be nice if someone here is one, or knows one

    Maybe we can all think of the types we know in different states and help one another out?
    Try to find EIIs, they probably have an SLI friend in their network.

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    Quote Originally Posted by jewels View Post
    ISTp guys in NYC. Anyone know one? Around 30? Maybe this sounds ridiculous, but it's so hard to find these guys in real life....
    Because of some of the work I do, I know TONS of ISTp guys... sadly most of them are already taken (or I'd be on 'em myself!), or they don't realize how fabulous an ENFp gal can be and keep going after the hot belly dancers that seem to be piled three deep around here (California).

    But if I know of one who is single and in your neck of the woods, I'll let ya know
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    Quote Originally Posted by jewels View Post
    ISTp guys in NYC. Anyone know one? Around 30? Maybe this sounds ridiculous, but it's so hard to find these guys in real life....

    I'm continuing to look, but would be nice if someone here is one, or knows one

    Maybe we can all think of the types we know in different states and help one another out?
    Why don't you take a vacation and come to the Netherlands? Ample ISTps over here!
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    my 10 cents: go to a nightclub where electronic music is played - SLIs love nice sound, especially electronic music.

    then you will come across many ISTPs.

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    i left a visitor message for you with a nice suggestion of where to start with a very high probability of finding some ISTPs, because they like electronic sound and xtc, or at least there are many of them who do, jewels.

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    I don't think I could survive in NYC. It'd be great in small doses, but longterm...no. If they're anything like me, they share that thought. Dating sites? No. Most ISTP's I know are good with the ladies.

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    Quote Originally Posted by jessica129 View Post
    I don't think I could survive in NYC. It'd be great in small doses, but longterm...no. If they're anything like me, they share that thought. Dating sites? No. Most ISTP's I know are good with the ladies.
    I have an ISTP friend who ended up going to other side of the world to meet someone he met on internet.

    Funny that now they're married, he gets loads of attention from girls, when he used to get practically none.

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