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    SLE/IEI?

    "I'm comin' clean for Amy, Julie doesn't scream as well..."


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    I don't know about songs but Titanic is a good example of peak Ti/Fe axis EIE (DiCaprio) - LSI (Winslet) duality.

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    Heh I'm sorta just thinking out loud with the one above... I'm only now reading about SLE/IEI pairs, so I could be wrong. It's a story about a serial killer who regrets killing Amy..he realizes he loves her because she screamed better than everyone else.

    Anyhow the Misfits have a Beta type of humor at the very least.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Kaz View Post
    Heh I'm sorta just thinking out loud with the one above... I'm only now reading about SLE/IEI pairs, so I could be wrong. It's a story about a serial killer who regrets killing Amy..he realizes he loves her because she screamed better than everyone else.

    Anyhow the Misfits have a Beta type of humor at the very least.
    he does sound pretty emo

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    At first I was ready to criticize you and correct you but I think you're right, this does feel like something I do enjoy. It reminded me of this person I really liked before.... and how we would have these conversations under this one tree outside in the open landscape.

    lol @ the end. It's like they finally fucked and the IEI got throat fucked by the SLE AT LAST.

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    B'n'D: I don't like being throat fucked ffs! :>
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    At all counts, it forms an unconscious snag, thwarting our most well-meant intentions."

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    Ezra,why aren't you IEI ?

    p.s.:that saxophone makes ambient music worse than it actually is.

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    Quote Originally Posted by timewaster View Post
    Ezra,why aren't you IEI ?
    1) Because England.

    2) Because "I don't like being throat fucked ffs! :>"

    3) Because you're not ESI.

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    I actually like it.
    LSI: “I still can’t figure out Pinterest.”

    Me: “It’s just, like, idea boards.”

    LSI: “I don’t have ideas.”

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    Quote Originally Posted by Ezra View Post
    3) Because you're not ESI.
    my little heart aches.Well,on a more serious note, IF GANDALF IS THEN I AM,TOO!

    do you really mean this for me or you are just being a naughty trolly IEI?

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    Default The over-the-top SLE/IEI music videos thread

    Edit: ok so I think this whole thread is actually LIE ESI



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    Dr. Manhattan seems Ni to me (?)
    And I would hide my face in you and you would hide your face in me, and nobody would ever see us any more.


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    I think dr manhattan is simply Ti to its extreme. Capable of accomplishing anything, totally out of touch with other people.

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    ok I'm gonna go ahead and say this whole thread is actually LIE ESI.

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    This dude is a clear SLE to me, I've always loved this song (whaddya guys think):


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    True Love by Pink is about SLE/IEI duality:

    "Sometimes I hate every single stupid word you say,
    Sometimes I wanna slap you in your whole face.
    There's no one quite like you, you push all my buttons down,
    I know life would suck without you.

    At the same time I wanna hug you, I wanna wrap my hands around your neck.
    You're an asshole but I love you, and you make me so mad I ask myself
    Why I'm still here, or where could I go? You're the only love I've ever known, but I hate you, I really hate you, so much I think it must be...

    True love true love...."
    In any other quadra such a relationship would be called disfunctional, but in Beta...
    “I have never tried that before, so I think I should definitely be able to do that.” --- Pippi Longstocking

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    Quote Originally Posted by consentingadult View Post
    True Love by Pink is about SLE/IEI duality:



    In any other quadra such a relationship would be called disfunctional, but in Beta...
    Huh... seems like, sometimes.

    Dysfunctional is mentally and emotionally exhausting though and most SLE relationships I have had were healthy but...

     

    Thankfully neither lasted long enough to do any real damage. I think.

    Oh and since I am E4, ugh.



    Ohhh, I miss the misery!

    I've been a mess since you stayed,
    I've been a wreck since you changed,
    Don't let me get in your way,
    I miss the lies and the pain,
    The fights that keep us awake-ake-ake
    I'm tellin you!

    I miss the bad things,
    The way you hate me,
    I miss the screaming,
    The way that you blame me!
    Miss the phone calls,
    When it's your fault,
    I miss the late nights,
    Don't miss you at all!
    I like the kick in the face,
    And the things you do to me!
    I love the way that it hurts!
    I don't miss you, I miss the misery!

    I've tried but I just can't take it,
    I'd rather fight than just fake it (cause I like it
    Rough),
    You know that I've had enough,
    I dare ya to call my bluff,
    Can't take too much of a good thing
    I'm tellin you!

    I miss the bad things,
    The way you hate me,
    I miss the screaming,
    The way that you blame me!
    Miss the phone calls,
    When it's your fault,
    I miss the late nights,
    Don't miss you at all!
    I like the kick in the face,
    And the things you do to me!
    I love the way that it hurts!
    I don't miss you, I miss the misery!

    Just know that I'll make you hurt,
    (I miss the lies and the pain what you did to me)
    When you tell me you'll make it worse
    (I'd rather fight all night than watch the TV)
    I hate that feelin inside
    You tell me how hard you'll try
    But when we're at our worst
    I miss the misery

    I miss the bad things,
    The way you hate me,
    I miss the screaming,
    The way that you blame me.

    I miss the rough sex,
    Leaves me a mess,
    I miss the feeling of pains in my chest!
    Miss the phone calls,
    When it's your fault,
    I miss the late nights,
    Don't miss you at all!
    I like the kick in the face,
    And the things you do to me!
    I love the way that it hurts!
    I don't miss you, I miss the misery!



    My experience with SLE-Se friends and exes over the years is more like this:



    Se seems more playful, maybe.

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    Quote Originally Posted by consentingadult View Post
    True Love by Pink is about SLE/IEI duality:



    In any other quadra such a relationship would be called disfunctional, but in Beta...
    Pink is SEE, not SLE, and the tune is about a dysfunctional relationship.

    Quote Originally Posted by suedehead View Post
    vid
    Radiohead is not Beta either. (alpha - delta)

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    Quote Originally Posted by Ananke View Post
    Pink is SEE, not SLE
    No she definitively is NOT SEE!! Period.
    “I have never tried that before, so I think I should definitely be able to do that.” --- Pippi Longstocking

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    Quote Originally Posted by Ananke View Post
    Pink is SEE, not SLE, and the tune is about a dysfunctional relationship.

    I want Pink for my Activity Partner, pLeazzzzzzzzz.

    She doesn't make my Fi-radar go off.
    You seek a great fortune, you three who are now in chains. You will find a fortune, though it will not be the one you seek.
    But first you must travel a long and difficult road, a road fraught with peril.
    You shall see things, wonderful to tell. You shall see a... cow... on the roof of a cotton house. And, oh, so many startlements.
    I cannot tell you how long this road shall be, but fear not the ob-stacles in your path, for fate has vouchsafed your reward.
    Though the road may wind, yea, your hearts grow weary, still shall ye follow them, even unto your salvation
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    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pukq_XJmM-k

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    Quote Originally Posted by Starfall View Post
    LOL, I used to use to think this song described me and my SLE ex perfectly. He agreed.
    .


    Think this is the better pink song for SLE/IEI duality.

    Also I think you've rose-colored glasses that relationship a bit...(given what we've heard here) ^_^
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    Quote Originally Posted by Starfall View Post
    This song fits with my current Beta break up (EIE/IEI). I wonder if IEI's have a tendency to naturally fall into the emotional punching bag role, then they just pick up and vanish when they've had enough. It's been a pattern with my relationships, and it always leaves the other person in shambles.

    I'm not sure if this just my experience, but Ni types can be especially cruel with words when they're hurting. They have the ability to cut you where they know it will hurt. I've seen this behavior in EIE's, IEI's, ILI's and LIE's.
    I think it is common but it's more a unhealthy expression of these traits.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Starfall View Post
    I'm not sure if this just my experience, but Ni types can be especially cruel with words when they're hurting. They have the ability to cut you where they know it will hurt. I've seen this behavior in EIE's, IEI's, ILI's and LIE's.
    Hurting by words is not Ni specific. All types may do it. Fe types do it more often. N types may do it with more fantasy. Nothing special.
    Types examples: video bloggers, actors

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    Quote Originally Posted by Starfall View Post
    ...
    I relate to pretty much everything you say here. Half my exes are on my FB and some of us still end our conversations with, "love you". I don't say it first though because I am always trying to be sensitive to them, and whatever relationship they are currently in or feelings they still have, but since I still feel love (not in love) for them I have no problems saying it back. Most of them are musicians playing in bands and they invite me to their shows a lot but I avoid that because it usually leads to some kind of trouble.

    Emails, pm and phone calls are fine. I always tell new relationships up front that I am friends with exes and if they can't handle it then they know to get out before they get in too deep. I do not let my exes interfere in current relationships though, so I do keep a certain psychological distance. Sometimes they just want to check up on me and see how I am doing. I don't get any sense of jealousy from them usually but they have joked around and told me to ditch other boyfriends and come back to them. It is all light-hearted. I try to leave relationships on good terms. I never like to burn my bridges and I have had exes help me out in many situations later because I left it on good terms.

    I don't think it is specific to duality but may be specific to certain personality types who are sensitive to other people's feelings and don't like to have bad vibes with others.
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    This song is pretty old but I think it captures the idea of "dysfunction" that people associate with SLE-IEI, better than songs that are too literal and wordy, like Pink's


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    Quote Originally Posted by mercutio View Post


    Why you do that??? You didn't even read my post, did you? I posted this song in this thread. Weird when that happens. I thought you were just mocking me when you did it before but you don't even notice. FU I am not reading your posts anymore either.

     


    Well, I thought that is how all friendships started?

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    I don't know what people type her but this song seems fitting.


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    Everything by this band, just watch the music video and you can see SLE IEI in action:

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2tdCu8uXQ7k

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    Quote Originally Posted by RedMarquee View Post
    Everything by this band, just watch the music video and you can see SLE IEI in action:

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2tdCu8uXQ7k
    That was so much fun! Thanks.

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    Quote Originally Posted by RedMarquee View Post
    Everything by this band
    Amazing. I watched them for three days straight. Beautiful.

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    Quote Originally Posted by RedMarquee View Post
    Everything by this band, just watch the music video and you can see SLE IEI in action:

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2tdCu8uXQ7k


    I don't see it at all. Is the dude SLE?

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    Quote Originally Posted by RedMarquee View Post
    Everything by this band, just watch the music video and you can see SLE IEI in action:

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2tdCu8uXQ7k
    Holy shit. At best I was expecting some decent songs from this thread, but this hits the nail on the fucking head.

    Quote Originally Posted by blood moon View Post
    I don't see it at all. Is the dude SLE?
    The guy is SLE and the girl is an IEI.

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    Quote Originally Posted by RedMarquee View Post
    Everything by this band, just watch the music video and you can see SLE IEI in action:

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2tdCu8uXQ7k
    Quote Originally Posted by maithili View Post


    I don't see it at all. Is the dude SLE?
    Yeah, it's cuz the dude is LSI and Leah Fay is SEI. The song is actually about benefit relationship :/ It's not doing much for me either, though the LSI dude has one sexy grungy voice.

    What was interesting in that video is how rounded and conserved Leah was with her dancing, so different from IEIs, especially Fe subtypes who show greater degrees of freedom in how they go about the dance floor and demonstrate some 'edgier' moves.

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    Quote Originally Posted by RedMarquee View Post
    Everything by this band, just watch the music video and you can see SLE IEI in action:

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2tdCu8uXQ7k
    I just wanted to say I saw them live last weekend and they are literally the EPITOME of sexual chemistry and COOL. Wow. I strive for a relationship like that. Apparently they have been dating for a long time.


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    cute <3


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    not exactly duality but i love this song and it also screams SLE to me:


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    My girl likes to party all the time. Party all the time. Party all the tiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiimmmmmmeee.
    Projection is ordinary. Person A projects at person B, hoping tovalidate something about person A by the response of person B. However, person B, not wanting to be an obejct of someone elses ego and guarding against existential terror constructs a personality which protects his ego and maintain a certain sense of a robust and real self that is different and separate from person A. Sadly, this robust and real self, cut off by defenses of character from the rest of the world, is quite vulnerable and fragile given that it is imaginary and propped up through external feed back. Person B is dimly aware of this and defends against it all the more, even desperately projecting his anxieties back onto person A, with the hope of shoring up his ego with salubrious validation. All of this happens without A or B acknowledging it, of course. Because to face up to it consciously is shocking, in that this is all anybody is doing or can do and it seems absurd when you realize how pathetic it is.

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