The one at the left.
The one at the left.
The one at the left.
The one at the left.
I have lousy VI skills so I'm not going to make a guess here.
Just a suggestion:
Try giving your VI threads a wider variety of titles than just her and him. It gets hard to navigate when several threads have the same title.
LII-Ne with strong EII tendencies, 6w7-9w1-3w4 so/sp/sx, INxP