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    Heh, my good energy day is probably a day that never got that low for you. Maybe taking an adventurous hike where I almost died of breathing or something. Quite ironic.

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    I'm not assuming anything so... I'll ask a question..

    What's your average day like?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Marie84 View Post

    Fe: "This person is sweet/warm/happy/sad/expressive/dull"
    Fi "This person is good/mean/cruel/kind/thoughtful"


    hmmm thread idea.
    Last edited by somavision; 03-05-2010 at 02:04 PM.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Krig the Viking View Post
    I know an obvious ESE who complains of the same thing. The important thing to keep in mind is that what an ESE calls "an incredibly low energy level" may still be "a superhumanly high energy level" for normal people. All it means is that they're trying to do more in one day than they have energy for.



    Just wanted to clarify - When i say i have low energy levels, it is like my eyes continuously feel bruised and droopy, throughout the day, i yawn and i struggle talking to people and concentrating, i continuously get headaches as well. - this is about 65% of the time, but keep in mind there are degrees and levels on how bad it is each day. I also have a great deal of trouble sleeping, my thoughts come alive at night, whether it be remembering things, re-playing scenarios of the days, analyzing details that people give off, working things out and that keeps me up.
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    Quote Originally Posted by sarahcoles View Post
    Just wanted to clarify - When i say i have low energy levels, it is like my eyes continuously feel bruised and droopy, throughout the day, i yawn and i struggle talking to people and concentrating, i continuously get headaches as well. - this is about 65% of the time, but keep in mind there are degrees and levels on how bad it is each day. I also have a great deal of trouble sleeping, my thoughts come alive aor st night, whether it be remembering things, re-playing scenarios of the days, analyzing details that people give off, woriking things out and that keeps me up.
    Have you tried meditation? Helps a lot for sleep. Had a problem myself with insomnia a while ago, I think it might be sensor related but idk.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Pinocchio View Post
    What more precisely, having a low energy level compared to others or complaining about such thing?
    It seems to me that ESEs have relatively normal energy levels, but they can get so busy that they burn themselves out. They wear themselves out with all the stuff they have on the go.

    VixenDogFox: does your LII try to get you to slow down and relax when you're overly busy? Or help with planning/list-making/scheduling, etc.?
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    Quote Originally Posted by Cyclops View Post
    Edit: Marie84, do you actually have an opinion on Sarah's type?
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    Quote Originally Posted by JohnDo View Post
    Exactly. C-ESE, 98% sure.

    Sarah, do you think you might be the same type (and even the same subtype) as Shakira and Alyssa Milano?
    I have never felt much of a connection to either, so i would say no.


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    Fe: "This person is sweet/warm/happy/sad/expressive/dull"
    Fi "This person is good/mean/cruel/kind/thoughtful"
    Good point.

    By this i might say im Fi over Fe....
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    Quote Originally Posted by VixenDogFox View Post
    It all depends. Normally he just lets me be how I am. But if getting things done seems overwhelming, he might encourage me to slow down. More, he likes to distract me by suggesting I watch something funny on TV with him or maybe he'll surprise me and fix a nice lunch for me. Yesterday he suggested a picnic but then it rained! Another way he distracts me is by talking to me. He's usually really quiet but when he has something to talk about he really opens up. I'll be stressed out and doing stuff that probably could wait and he'll start this fascinating conversation... sometimes we're up all night talking! Takes my stress away and we get to analyze and synthesize together which we love doing. He'll pose questions and we'll break it down, usually about something having to do with why is someone acting like this, or why the world works in a certain way or whatever.

    The thing is, I'm busy not because I like to be busy -- I do have low energy often and it takes work to get myself going -- but because I wants things done/a certain way, and no one is going to do it all but me, so I'm forced to be busy.

    Then there is the "being busy with making things" that I don't mind at all! Like if I'm working on something creative I can be busy for days and I love it.
    That sounds awesome. I'm still surprised sometimes at how much the behaviour required for Duals to make each other happy is just each person's completely natural behaviour, which they would be doing anyway.

    Quote Originally Posted by sarahcoles View Post
    I have never felt much of a connection to either, so i would say no.


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    Fe: "This person is sweet/warm/happy/sad/expressive/dull"
    Fi "This person is good/mean/cruel/kind/thoughtful"
    Good point.

    By this i might say im Fi over Fe....
    I personally don't think Shakira or Milano are ESE -- in my opinion a better example of C-ESE would be Bill Cosby or Keira Knightley.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Krig the Viking View Post
    I personally don't think Shakira or Milano are ESE -- in my opinion a better example of C-ESE would be Bill Cosby or Keira Knightley.
    I have never been a huge fan of Bill Cosby and would say without a doubt we are different types. hmmm..

    I do relate to Lisa Mitchell. watch her body language and shy facial movements -
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    i'm going to guess infp (maybe enfp)

    what is your enneagram type? type 4?
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    Quote Originally Posted by normal View Post
    maybe we should wait an answer from the LII's and ILI's dudes :wink:
    Why because their supposeldy smarter then the rest of us?
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    Quote Originally Posted by Typhon View Post
    Why because their supposeldy smarter then the rest of us?
    lol. They just live in their own heads more, it seems to fool people into thinking they are smarter on the interwebz.

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    No, the reason why LII and ILI are more reliable in this case is that distinguishing between dual and conflict is the most important thing concerning socionics...

    My "expert opinion" as an LII: still ESE.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Sammy View Post
    i'm going to guess infp (maybe enfp)

    what is your enneagram type? type 4?
    Im not quite sure actually. at first i was convinced 4, but then someone said i might be 2 or 6. so i would need to do some more research on that one.
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    Hmmm, I thought about you again and got some doubts...
    Your appearance is actually slightly different from other ESEs I know. You thought you might be intuitive so EIE is certainly the second guess. It is also interesting that you don't think you are the same type as the ESEs Krig and I mentioned...

    Let's talk about subtypes. Which description do you think fits better?

    The sensory subtype is vigorous, efficient and practical. Emotionally striking, but sympathetic and benevolent towards people. Able to correct impressions caused by sharp statements. Self-assured and skillful; coquettish and pleasant, create an intimate atmosphere with their dialogue. Projecting tenderness, they often embrace those that act nicely and courteously towards them. Attentive to people, careful and obliging, yet may react suddenly if they find something unpleasant. Their speech, as a rule, is fast and emotional, willingly forming compliments. Prone to fussiness and restlessness, but able to occasionally relax cheerfully. Hospitable, are able and willing to prepare a gourmet for others.. Their fast, graceful movements mimic liveliness. Charmingly puts on a show and loves expensive things.
    An original and creative person, they’re both extravagant and unpredictable. Very inquisitive and talkative; emotional enough to be impressionable. Internally intense/strained, frequently they doubt their decisions. Emotionally liberated and artistic, they easily express their feelings. Aware of the moods of others and are skilled in positively manipulating them. Speaks with feelings and enthusiasm, yet prone to irony and criticisms they sometimes project a venomous and haughty image. When in a good mood can command the center of attention within any company. Though able to fulfill practical obligations, often lack confidence in this regard. An active and social person, can switch between dressing unusually/extravagantly and simply/modestly. Movements are gusty and impulsive, lacking in restraint.
    The ethical subtype is artistic, impatient and a little extravagant. Unpredictability rules their actions and statements. Like to surprise/entertain friends, in which case even insignificant events can present them with sensations. Frequently the soul of the company, they’re self-assured with a good sense of humor, are easy to get along with and very impulsive. Are able to create familiar (i.e. home) conditions of dialogue, even among unfamiliar people. Willingly pay compliments while admiring (and being admired by) friends. Optimistic and friendly, charming and coquettish, they give the impression of theatricality. When focusing directly on something or someone they rarely blink. Their movements are sharp and resolute, their gait prompt and assured, though a little angular. Love originality and dress tastefully with the purpose of making an impression.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Sammy View Post
    i'm going to guess infp (maybe enfp)

    what is your enneagram type? type 4?
    Enneagram test results.

    PSTypes Enneagram Test Results
    The Distribution of Your Scores

    *Type One:13
    *Type Two:36
    *Type Three:28
    *Type Four:52
    *Type Five:32
    *Type Six:38
    *Type Seven:14
    *Type Eight:25
    *Type Nine:28

    Your probable Enneagram Type
    Your main type is 4.
    Considering the wings you should be a 4w5.
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    yeah i'm inclined to think you are infp, enneagram type 4

    4 - Enneagram Type Four: The Individualist
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    Quote Originally Posted by JohnDo View Post
    Hmmm, I thought about you again and got some doubts...
    Your appearance is actually slightly different from other ESEs I know. You thought you might be intuitive so EIE is certainly the second guess. It is also interesting that you don't think you are the same type as the ESEs Krig and I mentioned...

    Let's talk about subtypes. Which description do you think fits better?
    By those descriptions i would lead more to the second one. So what does that make me?
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    Quote Originally Posted by Sammy View Post
    yeah i'm inclined to think you are infp, enneagram type 4

    4 - Enneagram Type Four: The Individualist
    So if that be the case, why do a fair few people see me as ESFj/ESE??

    But i think type 4 is right, and INFp is a likely choice, one i have always concidered ...
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    Quote Originally Posted by Skeptic View Post
    Have you tried meditation? Helps a lot for sleep. Had a problem myself with insomnia a while ago, I think it might be sensor related but idk.
    Sorry - very very late reply.
    Not meditation, but i try to clam my mind down somehow (my mind usually comes active (replaying things or working things out etc etc) when im off to sleep, thus leads to sleep deprivation) My mind is continuously thinking and revising and creating and deciphering - it never stops or sleeps, thats why i find it hard to sleep . but it doesnt matter, just a part of me i have to deal with.
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    Quote Originally Posted by sarahcoles View Post
    Sorry - very very late reply.
    Not meditation, but i try to clam my mind down somehow (my mind usually comes active (replaying things or working things out etc etc) when im off to sleep, thus leads to sleep deprivation) My mind is continuously thinking and revising and creating and deciphering - it never stops or sleeps, thats why i find it hard to sleep . but it doesnt matter, just a part of me i have to deal with.
    That's Ne in your third spot herassing you. You can shut it off consciously with your leading role function.
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    Enneagram 2w1sw(1w9) helps others to live up to their own standards of what a good person is and is very behind the scenes in the process.
    Tritype 1-2-6 stacking sp/sx


    I'm constantly looking to align the real with the ideal.I've been more oriented toward being overly idealistic by expecting the real to match the ideal. My thinking side is dominent. The result is that sometimes I can be overly impersonal or self-centered in my approach, not being understanding of others in the process and simply thinking "you should do this" or "everyone should follor this rule"..."regardless of how they feel or where they're coming from"which just isn't a good attitude to have. It is a way, though, to give oneself an artificial sense of self-justification. LSE

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    Quote Originally Posted by sarahcoles View Post
    By those descriptions i would lead more to the second one. So what does that make me?
    That indicates ENFj, intuitive subtype. What I expected...
    First is ESFj (sensory subtype), third ENFp (ethical subtype)...

    I think ENFj might actually be your true type. I know some girls of this type (and subtype) and you look like them, indeed. Now I really don't know why I thought you were ESFj...
    Perhaps I first read the thread and got confused by other people who typed you as ESFj. It's really not a good idea to read other's opinions first and decide then. In the future I will type before reading the opinions of others...

    Certainly not INFp btw...
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    Quote Originally Posted by Maritsa33 View Post
    That's Ne in your third spot herassing you. You can shut it off consciously with your leading role function.
    Maritsa, I don't feel the need to explain myself to you, as you already have your judgment of me made up, there is no room for change, it seems, in you.

    Do you take into consideration people's enneagram type?
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    Quote Originally Posted by JohnDo View Post
    Certainly not INFp btw...
    Could you explain further? If I can rule it out, it would be very helpful if true.
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    Quote Originally Posted by sarahcoles View Post
    Maritsa, I don't feel the need to explain myself to you, as you already have your judgment of me made up, there is no room for change, it seems, in you.

    Do you take into consideration people's enneagram type?
    No I don't; I only consider VI to be valid.
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    Enneagram 2w1sw(1w9) helps others to live up to their own standards of what a good person is and is very behind the scenes in the process.
    Tritype 1-2-6 stacking sp/sx


    I'm constantly looking to align the real with the ideal.I've been more oriented toward being overly idealistic by expecting the real to match the ideal. My thinking side is dominent. The result is that sometimes I can be overly impersonal or self-centered in my approach, not being understanding of others in the process and simply thinking "you should do this" or "everyone should follor this rule"..."regardless of how they feel or where they're coming from"which just isn't a good attitude to have. It is a way, though, to give oneself an artificial sense of self-justification. LSE

    Best description of functions:
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    Quote Originally Posted by Suzzy View Post
    Hi Sarah's mum here. To me Sarah's first function which she is using is .She is just so emotional . It seems that often we tread on ice trying not to upset her emotions but she makes up for this when she is happy because a happy Sarah is indeed beautiful.
    As for her second function I am not sure as she is actually quite intelligent. I could be mistaking this for intuition. I do feel that the descriptions of ESFj/ESE might slightly fit her more than the descriptions of ENFj/EIE. Though she does do bits of both.
    I think you did great in the video Sarah and you made me laugh in some bits
    induces, coexes fun and reaction from other; valuers or prim or dominants love to have fun.. that doesn't mean they are emotional. Because you're intelligent that doesn't mean you're intuitive. Lots of brilliant people are ISTp, or any S type really, Marie Curie was ESTp. will twist stories to reveal their funny character, because of influence on words; will show a slight silly and pun nature to show fun and get people to react to jokes.

    The reason why I find SEE to be much better actors is because their face lights with every emotion; mine, as an INFj does not; I am always even on the outside, but all emotions are hidden on the inside...you couldn't tell that I am upset most of the time.
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    Enneagram 2w1sw(1w9) helps others to live up to their own standards of what a good person is and is very behind the scenes in the process.
    Tritype 1-2-6 stacking sp/sx


    I'm constantly looking to align the real with the ideal.I've been more oriented toward being overly idealistic by expecting the real to match the ideal. My thinking side is dominent. The result is that sometimes I can be overly impersonal or self-centered in my approach, not being understanding of others in the process and simply thinking "you should do this" or "everyone should follor this rule"..."regardless of how they feel or where they're coming from"which just isn't a good attitude to have. It is a way, though, to give oneself an artificial sense of self-justification. LSE

    Best description of functions:
    http://socionicsstudy.blogspot.com/2...functions.html

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    The facial expression you make at about 17 seconds (where you cocked your head to the side and opened your mouth to one side before saying "today") was almost an exact replica of my ex-roomie who I pretty much typed as an ESE after conferring with a few people here about her type.

    I am no socionist by any means so my opinion means nothing as to your true type. You remind me of a younger version of her so much it's almost incredible, mostly in your mannerisms and facial expressions.

    Though this picture of her doesn't show your facial expressions being alike, it does have some resemblance I think, a 12 year older version of you as far as I'm concerned...lol.
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    You seem genuinely nice.

    I think the reason you have a hard time with people is cause like everybody else on here, you see through the illusion of society. I think that's what it all boils down to. You can see thru bullshit and what other people are up to morally and well... not many people are going to like you for that. Being a good guy is never popular.

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    Quote Originally Posted by BulletsAndDoves View Post
    You seem genuinely nice.

    I think the reason you have a hard time with people is cause like everybody else on here, you see through the illusion of society. I think that's what it all boils down to. You can see thru bullshit and what other people are up to morally and well... not many people are going to like you for that. Being a good guy is never popular.
    Thank you. you made me smile .
    Wow, when you put it like that it sounds nicer than my version of 'illusion on society'. it is just a facade (still putting it nicely ).
    You're INFp?? What made you come up with the society thing? was it feeling, intuition, understanding or all?
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    EIE
    "Far better it is to dare mighty things, to win glorious triumphs, even though checkered by failure, than to take rank with those poor spirits who neither enjoy much nor suffer much, because they live in the gray twilight that knows not victory nor defeat."
    --Theodore Roosevelt

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