Fidelity

[FDG]

Alright, I have an interesting idea...we could train the census people to type VI of J and P; if I present my suggestion to the city council maybe I could get an approval, that is a project that I may need to work on along with my masters.

Uhm, perhaps it's better to just have the census people give them some questions that could determine P-J. I personally like VI but it does take some time to understand how each type looks-behaves, I guess census people also have other obligations.

[crazedrat]

All true, cyclops. My solution is to change my aspirations from monogomy to serial monogomy.

Maritsa, Great idea! But the only way we'll ever get it done, is if we go out into the streets ourselves and start counting. Infact, we can start today. Ill start by going door to door and counting in my city, you start in your city, and we'll go from there.

[Beautiful sky]

All true, cyclops. My solution is to change my aspirations from monogomy to serial monogomy.

Maritsa, Great idea! But the only way we'll ever get it done, is if we go out into the streets ourselves and start counting. Infact, we can start today. Ill start by going door to door and counting in my city, you start in your city, and we'll go from there.

I don't buy you being INFp...every think maybe you might be INTj or INFj?

[implied]

What are your views on cheating on your partner or spouse?

I've noticed so many people who go behind their partners back, yet it seems from talking to people that everyone says it's wrong.

Anyway, this conversation came up at work today and it was interesting to see what people had to say.

For myself, i've seen plenty people go behind their partners backs. I've also been with a few married woman when I was younger. My attitude at the time was that it was them who were doing something wrong, not me - as i'm the single one - and it may as well be me who's getting some action rather than some other guy.

this is interesting to me because i have definitely had married/otherwise taken people hit on me, etc. the whole reason i would never pursue a relationship with one of these people is because i would never want it done to me.

i have an ex-boyfriend from high school who i still keep in touch with. to make a long story short, he came to visit me once, we made out, and i later found out he had a girlfriend. i was pretty disgusted with him and actually got really angry with him about it, because i felt like i had done something i wouldn't have otherwise done had i had the knowledge that he had a gf.

anyhow, it's weird, because really i don't know his current girlfriend, and wouldn't ever have to. but i still won't do it.


and i'm definitely not claiming i've never cheated on someone, because i have. however, when it happened it was when the relationship had gone downhill already & was completely unsalvageable.

However, seeing so many things clouds my trust on the issue of fidelity, and surely with so many people 'two timing' or just one night stands, and so many people saying they don't, that there's got to be lying somewhere!

maybe, but a lot of people do value fidelity.


re: men being "biologically wired" -- there are a LOT of arguments against this, and simplifying it down to men being "wired" to spread their seed is basically laughable. whenever i read this stuff i just think people pick an argument that is most advantageous to them and decide that is "truth," when it's just really a lot more complex than that. just fucking google it.