It’s still a good time of year to do some hiking. You will be surprised how many S types take advantage of local parks and. I took my daughter to Griffith Park just yesterday and we had a lot of fun.Originally Posted by Claudius
Get out explore
It’s still a good time of year to do some hiking. You will be surprised how many S types take advantage of local parks and. I took my daughter to Griffith Park just yesterday and we had a lot of fun.
Get out explore
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Dual type(as per tcaudilllg)
Enneagram 2w1sw(1w9) helps others to live up to their own standards of what a good person is and is very behind the scenes in the process.
Tritype 1-2-6 stacking sp/sx
I'm constantly looking to align the real with the ideal.I've been more oriented toward being overly idealistic by expecting the real to match the ideal. My thinking side is dominent. The result is that sometimes I can be overly impersonal or self-centered in my approach, not being understanding of others in the process and simply thinking "you should do this" or "everyone should follor this rule"..."regardless of how they feel or where they're coming from"which just isn't a good attitude to have. It is a way, though, to give oneself an artificial sense of self-justification. LSE
Best description of functions:
http://socionicsstudy.blogspot.com/2...functions.html
a very sweet INFJ
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mzqwK_y4F5I
Dual type
Enneagram 2w1sw(1w9) helps others to live up to their own standards of what a good person is and is very behind the scenes in the process.
Tritype 1-2-6 stacking sp/sx
I'm constantly looking to align the real with the ideal.I've been more oriented toward being overly idealistic by expecting the real to match the ideal. My thinking side is dominent. The result is that sometimes I can be overly impersonal or self-centered in my approach, not being understanding of others in the process and simply thinking "you should do this" or "everyone should follor this rule"..."regardless of how they feel or where they're coming from"which just isn't a good attitude to have. It is a way, though, to give oneself an artificial sense of self-justification. LSE
Best description of functions:
http://socionicsstudy.blogspot.com/2...functions.html
Thank you! I actually had more anxiety about not being able to breathe than I did about actual flames, interestingly enough.
I've realized my body took the brunt of my stress, and currently I am feeling unwell. Being home again, safe and comfortable, has helped a lot.
LSE-shrewd, haha, I like it. My husband is good about coming up with systems and processes that make my goals or wants easier to accomplish. Like when we first moved into our place, he did most of the arranging and storing of things, and as I went about my daily life I would encounter difficulties or decide I wanted something to work differently, and I learned to tell him and he would rearrange things to make it work better for me. And whenever our small fridge gets full and I need to put leftovers away or just when I need something packed well, I often ask him to do it because somehow he makes it all fit just right, haha.
What a pretty stove! I approve!
Good idea. You need something that is both a safety tool and usable. I know some people who completely disconnect their smoke alarms because they get tired of fighting it to turn it off when they don't need it.
You remind me a little of me IEE sister, taking on a lot. She's a physicians assistant and when the pandemic really got going she actually had her hours cut in half. So she applied for a less popular job in her same workplace and now she's working full time again, two jobs at half time each. So she's very busy again! She's had to learn over the years how to be still and rest, but I think she does overall favor a faster pace than I do.
Not quite in the woods, but lots of trees all about. There's also a good deal of farmland.
Good job researching and adapting to the constraints!Yes, the heat is the big issue. You know we were going to use sheet metal, because it's cheap, but I decided it wasn't much more to go with cement board (requires to be installed 1" from wall) covered with the ceramic tile they say is fine. So I found an inexpensive tile that looked right in the room (shiny "lake green" like rippled water), and we did same on the hearth (using wood-look ceramic on the wood floor). Well, when the helper was actually finally putting it in, I said, "Can't it go closer to the wall?" (every inch is sacred when your house is small). He said "No. If you had used brick, yes, but this tile has a glass glaze and can crack."I didn't know that was a factor; I can only research so much! But, for a bonus he moved it in an inch for me and that made me happy.
INFj / EII / FiNe
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"Have courage and be kind." - Cinderella's mom
"Fear wist not to evade as Love wist to pursue." - Francis Thompson
Armenia is at war with Azerbaijan and let's see how much richer Russia gets for it for selling arms to both sides.
Dual type
Enneagram 2w1sw(1w9) helps others to live up to their own standards of what a good person is and is very behind the scenes in the process.
Tritype 1-2-6 stacking sp/sx
I'm constantly looking to align the real with the ideal.I've been more oriented toward being overly idealistic by expecting the real to match the ideal. My thinking side is dominent. The result is that sometimes I can be overly impersonal or self-centered in my approach, not being understanding of others in the process and simply thinking "you should do this" or "everyone should follor this rule"..."regardless of how they feel or where they're coming from"which just isn't a good attitude to have. It is a way, though, to give oneself an artificial sense of self-justification. LSE
Best description of functions:
http://socionicsstudy.blogspot.com/2...functions.html
@Minde, those pictures are STUNNING! I loved them. What a pleasure to look at. I am so glad you can still have that beauty.
I love how you captured the same scene with so many different views! I just love it.
Nature is so healing, isn't it? I am really enjoying this weather and the fall colors, finally changing belatedly this year. My (new) commute is most busy highway, something I don't like, until I get off the picturesque wealthy rural town my school is in. But much of the highway, between the towns we race by, is nestled in low mountains (making it the windiest fast-moving highway I have ever been on) and there are so many beautiful views of them. (Except for the blight of the interruption of major power lines, and worse, all those ominous cell towers they put up during covid lockdown).
Also I drove across CT and back last weekend, in a rented pickup, and some of the rural roads were so stunning, with the turning trees and the roads a winding ribbon covered by big old trees of every type and color. Through one small town, I guess because it was a major through-road, a big group of Trump supporters from young to old were out, roadside at a traffic light, with their signs, and the beautiful fall day. Really salt-of-the-earth looking folk, with nice faces of good character. I was glad to see them.
Lately at home this one tree keeps catching my eye and delighting me. It is an old maple my husband taps every year, and I keep wondering if it is going to make it, as it always loses something in a storm. I want it to stay. It has a particularly lovely shape. It sits on the end of our driveway and frames our house from a certain view, turning our simple home (we have enhanced it a bit; I have pics here somewhere of our work) into something really special in its mature foliage frame. Today I just gasped when I saw it is going flame red in places, with still some green on it. I don't recall it turning red before. The maple next to it is turning orange. It's also old but not a sugar maple. The just-beginning-to-set sun was behind it and the red leaves were glowing like lights against the sapphire sky. I hope, hope, hope this is not a last hurrah and it will hold on some more years.
Anyway, it is lovely to have a view to love. I am so glad you can enjoy that with your new husband. He sounds great, and you sound happy.
"A man with a definite belief always appears bizarre, because he does not change with the world; he has climbed into a fixed star, and the earth whizzes below him like a zoetrope."
........ G. ........... K. ............... C ........ H ........ E ...... S ........ T ...... E ........ R ........ T ........ O ........ N ........
"Having a clear faith, based on the creed of the Church, is often labeled today as fundamentalism... Whereas relativism, which is letting oneself be tossed and swept along
by every wind of teaching, looks like the only
attitude acceptable to today's standards." - Pope Benedict the XVI, "The Dictatorship of Relativism"
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@Sol
I guess Russia will always save Armenia but never recognize us as his dual
Dual type
Enneagram 2w1sw(1w9) helps others to live up to their own standards of what a good person is and is very behind the scenes in the process.
Tritype 1-2-6 stacking sp/sx
I'm constantly looking to align the real with the ideal.I've been more oriented toward being overly idealistic by expecting the real to match the ideal. My thinking side is dominent. The result is that sometimes I can be overly impersonal or self-centered in my approach, not being understanding of others in the process and simply thinking "you should do this" or "everyone should follor this rule"..."regardless of how they feel or where they're coming from"which just isn't a good attitude to have. It is a way, though, to give oneself an artificial sense of self-justification. LSE
Best description of functions:
http://socionicsstudy.blogspot.com/2...functions.html
His dual? Russia is a mother.
One of the endearing qualities of an ESTJ is how they get choked up emotionally when they recall someone they love but how they control their emotions in public. Makes me want to kiss them
Dual type
Enneagram 2w1sw(1w9) helps others to live up to their own standards of what a good person is and is very behind the scenes in the process.
Tritype 1-2-6 stacking sp/sx
I'm constantly looking to align the real with the ideal.I've been more oriented toward being overly idealistic by expecting the real to match the ideal. My thinking side is dominent. The result is that sometimes I can be overly impersonal or self-centered in my approach, not being understanding of others in the process and simply thinking "you should do this" or "everyone should follor this rule"..."regardless of how they feel or where they're coming from"which just isn't a good attitude to have. It is a way, though, to give oneself an artificial sense of self-justification. LSE
Best description of functions:
http://socionicsstudy.blogspot.com/2...functions.html
I posted this in chat, but want to preserve it for posterity: I'm thankful today to have an ESTj as my bookkeeper who can handle disputes with bureaucratic departments on my behalf. I'd have caved awhile back.
INFj / EII / FiNe
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"Have courage and be kind." - Cinderella's mom
"Fear wist not to evade as Love wist to pursue." - Francis Thompson
Put up the Christmas tree, this year has been going by strangely. Was also listening to Christmas music while putting it up with my family. Last Christmas is like it was yesterday and wondering what 2020 would bring. Now we have the answer to that question. The Christmas spirit is there but it is going to be a lot different this year. I can find a lot of good that came with the year, even if there were major changes that were not so good.
Each of the different ornaments has a different story to tell. My little two-and-a-half year old niece is new to the whole thing and keeps on taking ornaments off and playing with them. She doesn't quite understand that they are decorations, and that is the fun part of being little on Christmas. The last two Christmases, I had some ambivalence towards th holiday but this year, not so much. It flew by, but there are other parts that went by slowly.
xII se PoLR, 9w1-2w3-5w4 sp/so
Phlegmatic-Melancholic |RCoAI| Fascinator| Newtype-secondary| Impressionist Meme, leaning towards lateral|
#JusticeforJeb_, Water Sheep did nothing wrong, High Inquisitor Of Council of Water Sheep and Water Sheep's protector
Make things right? Who are we to decide when things are right and when they need to be fixed?
It's easy to be stupid, especially when you aren't accustomed to how smart someone else can be.
Posts I wrote in the past contain less nuance.
If you're in this forum to learn something, be careful. Lots of misplaced toxicity.
~an extraverted consciousness is unable to believe in invisible forces.
~a certain mysterious power that may prove terribly fascinating to the extraverted man, for it touches his unconscious.
I know this is old but to me, it means things are getting too hectic and I need space and time to fix it out. You should learn to understand that sometimes we need to be alone and be a hermit for gods know how long.What is it with Fi dominants and "taking a break"?
"I think we should take a break for a while. Things are just too _____ right now"
ESIs and EIIs have done this, and it baffles me at how it's supposed to do anything for the relationship. To me, it's a form of wussing out, and it's something about Fi dominants that I don't like (yes, other types/people do it, too).
I think it's very selfish, and it's this weird assumption and judgment call on their part that everything will remain the same relationally while they go and have time alone to sit and think and ponder and 'recuperate'.
Maybe it's a good thing I'm not with one of them. It's nice how IEEs (or at least one of them is ) are a lot less "mood based", in the sense that, obviously like everyone else there are other circumstances that influence someone's feelings, but, at least in my situation, feelings can change or disappear, a lot faster than with Fi dominants. ((I'm speaking within the context of an already established relationship, too - not the awkwardness of first getting to know someone). Also, when I say "feelings", I don't mean "how someone feels about me relationally", which is awesome. I can be unnerved when I think that changes too much. But it's nice when 'moods', particularly negative ones, can change more easily.
Fi dominants seem to enjoy being upset for extended periods of time
That's not a 'factual remark', it's just how it comes off more so.
It's kind of liberating, really, to not be so encumbered by the feelings of "How is this going to affect someone's mood?" - and maybe that's an influence of IEE preferring Fe polr in someone.
Last edited by Miro; 12-23-2020 at 02:57 AM.
"What is it with Fi dominants and "taking a break"?"
ah, having very poor Ni and being young...
Posts I wrote in the past contain less nuance.
If you're in this forum to learn something, be careful. Lots of misplaced toxicity.
~an extraverted consciousness is unable to believe in invisible forces.
~a certain mysterious power that may prove terribly fascinating to the extraverted man, for it touches his unconscious.
that said, yeah.
being task oriented in the public sphere is the easiest thing to do.
Posts I wrote in the past contain less nuance.
If you're in this forum to learn something, be careful. Lots of misplaced toxicity.
~an extraverted consciousness is unable to believe in invisible forces.
~a certain mysterious power that may prove terribly fascinating to the extraverted man, for it touches his unconscious.
I am working with three INFJ at work currently. Two of them are dating each other and the other one I'm not sure about. Turns out the other female INFJ is having relationship troubles and she confided in me about the abuse that she's experiencing and the financial hardship. It's nice having another INFJ friend.
Dual type
Enneagram 2w1sw(1w9) helps others to live up to their own standards of what a good person is and is very behind the scenes in the process.
Tritype 1-2-6 stacking sp/sx
I'm constantly looking to align the real with the ideal.I've been more oriented toward being overly idealistic by expecting the real to match the ideal. My thinking side is dominent. The result is that sometimes I can be overly impersonal or self-centered in my approach, not being understanding of others in the process and simply thinking "you should do this" or "everyone should follor this rule"..."regardless of how they feel or where they're coming from"which just isn't a good attitude to have. It is a way, though, to give oneself an artificial sense of self-justification. LSE
Best description of functions:
http://socionicsstudy.blogspot.com/2...functions.html
Oh and I'm changing Minde's type to INFj
Dual type
Enneagram 2w1sw(1w9) helps others to live up to their own standards of what a good person is and is very behind the scenes in the process.
Tritype 1-2-6 stacking sp/sx
I'm constantly looking to align the real with the ideal.I've been more oriented toward being overly idealistic by expecting the real to match the ideal. My thinking side is dominent. The result is that sometimes I can be overly impersonal or self-centered in my approach, not being understanding of others in the process and simply thinking "you should do this" or "everyone should follor this rule"..."regardless of how they feel or where they're coming from"which just isn't a good attitude to have. It is a way, though, to give oneself an artificial sense of self-justification. LSE
Best description of functions:
http://socionicsstudy.blogspot.com/2...functions.html
^ mistyped ones lounge
Types examples: video bloggers, actors
I'm 60% sure I'm an EII-Ne and I'm absolutely certain my mother is an LSE-Si. I'm going to hang out here.
I have never tried to actively learn a new language, although over the years I have picked up enough spanish to understand it in writing as long as its basic vocab. I definitely do not understand it when spoken lol.
I have grown up speaking three languages, one by each of my parents ("mothertongue") and third from kindergarten onwards and so it still feels like I have known it from birth since I don't remember not knowing it.
Because of my love for Montreal, Canada, I am going to (at some point in the next few years) work on learning French. The pronunciation seems the most difficult; otherwise pretty similar to spanish.
it's a time where apathy is rampant and the world will incline you to not have much meaning.
it doesn't matter though; that which needs building will still need to be built
Posts I wrote in the past contain less nuance.
If you're in this forum to learn something, be careful. Lots of misplaced toxicity.
~an extraverted consciousness is unable to believe in invisible forces.
~a certain mysterious power that may prove terribly fascinating to the extraverted man, for it touches his unconscious.
Poldark is...disappointing
or perhaps just not my taste
(also a small little “complaint” but I wish sx storylines employed actors or at least characters that can be boundless sx. Otherwise it gets a little dry).
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