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[Beautiful sky]

My Estj ex recently friended me on Facebook. I accepted his friendship request. He sent me a private message saying that the reason why he treated so poorly was because he didn’t want another child and I wanted a family. Although he never firmly said he didn’t want another child he kept me on the hook hoping he would say whether this was in the cards for him or not for three years. He was hoping I am a single mom and that be can get back with me. How selfish and self serving and manipulative is this?

[Minde]

In case I'll do a break in posting here and will be an interest for contact, that forum is most possible place to find me by the nick.
I did long breaks here several times.

> Do you use autotranslators to read/write here?

It's bad language level. I may use a translator to find some words.

Ok, thanks for the clarification. I appreciate you being helpful like that.

[Beautiful sky]

Up to -10 Celsius without significant wind is not difficult conditions. Just needs appropriate clothes.
I do not know details about homeless ones in Moscow.

The loss of human decency and moral values really bothers me

[VewyScawwyNawcissist]

My Estj ex recently friended me on Facebook. I accepted his friendship request. He sent me a private message saying that the reason why he treated so poorly was because he didn’t want another child and I wanted a family. Although he never firmly said he didn’t want another child he kept me on the hook hoping he would say whether this was in the cards for him or not for three years. He was hoping I am a single mom and that be can get back with me. How selfish and self serving and manipulative is this?

i despise that kind of people because they expect u to be nice to them but they will find reasons to hurt u when u are, and if u get revenge or treat them fairly/equally/assert they get mad. so you lose or you lose. its always about them and they only get away with it because the world is full of them they enable each other but if they'd have to live with each other they'd create stupid dramas that may also kill someone. they dont know how to have a better life and maybe its because they dont have the damn incentive or care and will to exert the necessary effort. ive seen a vid of an LSE where he didnt seem too bad maybe but likely he like all else are so imperceptive if they had to deal with something more nuanced they'd mess it up and act victims about it. why do they have to always rely on someone else to provide insight for them? when it gets hard they forget about it and keep doing more of what they are used to.

[Beautiful sky]

i despise that kind of people because they expect u to be nice to them but they will find reasons to hurt u when u are, and if u get revenge or treat them fairly/equally/assert they get mad. so you lose or you lose. its always about them and they only get away with it because the world is full of them they enable each other but if they'd have to live with each other they'd create stupid dramas that may also kill someone. they dont know how to have a better life and maybe its because they dont have the damn incentive or care and will to exert the necessary effort. ive seen a vid of an LSE where he didnt seem too bad maybe but likely he like all else are so imperceptive if they had to deal with something more nuanced they'd mess it up and act victims about it. why do they have to always rely on someone else to provide insight for them? when it gets hard they forget about it and keep doing more of what they are used to.

Oh how I love genuine and good hearted people

[necrosebud]

Got these plushies for my birthday a few days ago: https://imgur.com/a/LNL9zWB

[necrosebud]

First time going to a gym without a trainer to guide me. I have been doing group gym classes until now, which have taught me basic movements - did both cardio and weights. But I want to focus on weightlifting.

I was quite nervous because although I know how to do the actual exercises, I am not used to gym equipment and absolutely no guiding hand. I did my best with video but that’s not the same a someone experienced showing me the ropes if you will. I didn’t understand why there were so many different types of squat racks for example… don’t want to go into details but it’s the small stuff, how the machines work etc that I need help with. I don’t want to bother other people who are exercising

i don’t know it sounds kinda dumb

anyways I was able to do what I needed to, today. And I am happy with the variety of equipments here - it’s quite exciting.

im following this workout right now: https://www.muscleandstrength.com/wo...ackage-workout

[necrosebud]

I’m so horribly sore

and I need to go again today for day 2…

[Beautiful sky]

First time going to a gym without a trainer to guide me. I have been doing group gym classes until now, which have taught me basic movements - did both cardio and weights. But I want to focus on weightlifting.

I was quite nervous because although I know how to do the actual exercises, I am not used to gym equipment and absolutely no guiding hand. I did my best with video but that’s not the same a someone experienced showing me the ropes if you will. I didn’t understand why there were so many different types of squat racks for example… don’t want to go into details but it’s the small stuff, how the machines work etc that I need help with. I don’t want to bother other people who are exercising

i don’t know it sounds kinda dumb

anyways I was able to do what I needed to, today. And I am happy with the variety of equipments here - it’s quite exciting.

im following this workout right now: https://www.muscleandstrength.com/wo...ackage-workout

I’d love to go too
Just haven’t had the time.
I’m doing calisthenics at home and yoga

[necrosebud]

I’d love to go too
Just haven’t had the time.
I’m doing calisthenics at home and yoga

I don’t know that much about calisthenics and yoga, but body weight exercises are good too

i couldn’t even lift the 45 lbs barbell when I first tried it, more than 2 years ago. Now I have no issues with it. Sometimes people need to start with body weight exercises
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anyways - day 2, I was slightly more nervous because I used assisted pull-up machine, and I think I have only used that once in my life and I was slightly trembling since I have to put my faith in the machine by putting my entire body weight. And it goes up pretty high. Anyways I pushed through it and was able to do the sets and reps and even challenged myself a bit.

basic barbell exercises are some of my favorite though - deadlift, squat, bench press

[Beautiful sky]

I don’t know that much about calisthenics and yoga, but body weight exercises are good too

i couldn’t even lift the 45 lbs barbell when I first tried it, more than 2 years ago. Now I have no issues with it. Sometimes people need to start with body weight exercises
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anyways - day 2, I was slightly more nervous because I used assisted pull-up machine, and I think I have only used that once in my life and I was slightly trembling since I have to put my faith in the machine by putting my entire body weight. And it goes up pretty high. Anyways I pushed through it and was able to do the sets and reps and even challenged myself a bit.

basic barbell exercises are some of my favorite though - deadlift, squat, bench press

Awesome I’m so excited for you

[necrosebud]

I have to push pretty hard to feel any pain, but it’s so strange to me that bruises from 6 months ago haven’t gone away completely

[Beautiful sky]

I have to push pretty hard to feel any pain, but it’s so strange to me that bruises from 6 months ago haven’t gone away completely

That looks like dermal hematoma and no cause for concern. I have one from 4 years ago. If it changes in any way see a doctor

[necrosebud]

The Cosma Visions Oracle is probably my favorite deck out of the three that I bought: https://imgur.com/a/FenvGOX

[necrosebud]

Trying to make a birthday card for my brother and I messed up the pop-up cat lol and couldn’t get the card to close properly, so I just stuck a washi tape on it https://imgur.com/a/KXLg7Oq

[Beautiful sky]

Trying to make a birthday card for my brother and I messed up the pop-up cat lol and couldn’t get the card to close properly, so I just stuck a washi tape on it https://imgur.com/a/KXLg7Oq

Adorable Cat

[necrosebud]

Cute things I bought today: https://imgur.com/a/7MY91Pu

[necrosebud]

Cute things I bought today: https://imgur.com/a/7MY91Pu

The flora blind box figure is so cute... I can't find it online except at one store (a different series) and I have searched extensively lol
I am surprised I got these and wonder where the shop themselves got it from

apparently it originates in China

[loopyclouds]

The flora blind box figure is so cute... I can't find it online except at one store (a different series) and I have searched extensively lol
I am surprised I got these and wonder where the shop themselves got it from

apparently it originates in China

It looks like POPMART figurines. You can search them up on Google Images to see if it matches what you have. I'm interested in them as well. So cutee

https://www.popmart.com/ --> I think they have worldwide shipping, not sure.

[necrosebud]

It looks like POPMART figurines. You can search them up on Google Images to see if it matches what you have. I'm interested in them as well. So cutee

https://www.popmart.com/ --> I think they have worldwide shipping, not sure.

It's called Flora flower spirit and the only place I found it is here: https://www.bubblewrapptoys.com/prod...irit-by-pinyun

Otherwise it is all ebay and stuff (reselling boxes it seems)

I even searched it in (google translated) chinese on baidu hoping that would do something, looked up the manufacturing company on the box etc and nothing lol

btw the popmart figurines are cute too

[loopyclouds]

It's called Flora flower spirit and the only place I found it is here: https://www.bubblewrapptoys.com/prod...irit-by-pinyun

Otherwise it is all ebay and stuff (reselling boxes it seems)

I even searched it in (google translated) chinese on baidu hoping that would do something, looked up the manufacturing company on the box etc and nothing lol

btw the popmart figurines are cute too

There's some on aliexpress: https://www.aliexpress.com/i/1005003317336971.html
And this random website (but idk how safe it is ): https://omtiktok.com/products/flora-...es-mystery-box

[necrosebud]

There's some on aliexpress: https://www.aliexpress.com/i/1005003317336971.html
And this random website (but idk how safe it is ): https://omtiktok.com/products/flora-...es-mystery-box

I think I saw the aliexpress one before I don't really trust it

thanks for the other link!

[Beautiful sky]

I have gone through dozens of things where I master something and lose interest
Now it’s time to master 120% hydration sourdough bread

[Muira]

Don't mind me intruding

[Amoeba]

Don't mind me intruding

SLE IMPOSTER!

[Muira]

SLE IMPOSTER!

MUHAHAHAHAHHAHA

[necrosebud]

the character (not the actress) seems kinda IEE
https://youtu.be/eN6AYHAT8UM

[Sol]

Someones should be left in the past.

[necrosebud]

https://imgur.com/a/oVpDoNu

[tardigrade]

Think i'm (EII) with my dual (LSE)

Yay

[Sol]

i'm (EII) with my dual (LSE)

you may make a typing theme to give the possibility understand what is your type

[tardigrade]

I am not sure I understood entirely your comment. But I am filling out one of the questionnaires. Will take a couple of days tho probably.

Tho I am quite confident in my socionics type, a couple of things are not AS fitting so i would like to make sure what others would type me.

[on a peaceful hiatus]

I am not sure I understood entirely your comment. But I am filling out one of the questionnaires. Will take a couple of days tho probably.

Tho I am quite confident in my socionics type, a couple of things are not AS fitting so i would like to make sure what others would type me.

probably IEI

[tardigrade]

probably IEI

i assume you are joking
because it should be a joke

[Sol]

because it should be a joke

The chance your type is Fe seems as higher, at least.

[tardigrade]

The chance your type is Fe seems as higher, at least.

Not being Fe ego is one of the things I am most certain of
Considering you also said nothing but video would suffice for typing it's peculiar to even suggest this from the little I have shared

[Beautiful sky]

Think i'm (EII) with my dual (LSE)

Yay

Awesome

[Beautiful sky]

Not being Fe ego is one of the things I am most certain of
Considering you also said nothing but video would suffice for typing it's peculiar to even suggest this from the little I have shared

He doesn’t quite understand that Fe types are able to convey all kinds of emotions and cause others to feel all kinds of emotions as well. So don’t listen to him

[nifl]

Not being Fe ego is one of the things I am most certain of

when you think you have a similar type to 2 of them, like EII, such a stance is rather unjustified before checking your type through intertype relations.

Considering you also said nothing but video would suffice for typing it's peculiar to even suggest this from the little I have shared

with new forum members/other people which you do not know personally or have communicated with for long, it is only reasonable to type through video. so, if you have lengthy and regular interactions with them, the chance that their type can be ascertained without a video is higher than from a questionnaire, but a video is still preferred to additionally have, as more reliable material for typing; it's harder to distort your image through your non-verbal behaviour than on text.

+ for Fe/- for EII is you posting an exclamation of disgust in response to some accusations by Northstar to delegitimise the video typing. he has some... eccentric ideas in his head about what happens on this forum. it's unlikely that EII would respond with such open disdain towards someone, especially a stranger.
1. as Fi and introverts they do not so quickly jump to behaviour which may inflame a conflict. similarly, a logical type, being insecure in emotional evaluations/expression, would likely say something less explicit, if they had to.
2. Ne types would not often react so simplistically to a situation which they do not know much of. when they do not have all the pertinent information, or suspect they may not have it, they are apt to perceive with nuance how the situation could be understood. to imagine alternative interpretations for situations is less important for Ni valuing types, less obvious for S.

so, since EII is at least not the most likely based on your current behavior, i recommend a video too, or at least to seriously try checking with intertypes irl. you may have the impulse to consider yourself EII, since you identify your partner as LSE. to potentially get closer to the truth about this would help with your decisions and understanding of that relationship.

[Northstar]

when you think you have a similar type to 2 of them, like EII, such a stance is rather unjustified before checking your type through intertype relations.


with new forum members/other people which you do not know personally or have communicated with for long, it is only reasonable to type through video. so, if you have lengthy and regular interactions with them, the chance that their type can be ascertained without a video is higher than from a questionnaire, but a video is still preferred to additionally have, as more reliable material for typing; it's harder to distort your image through your non-verbal behaviour than on text.

+ for Fe/- for EII is you posting an exclamation of disgust in response to some accusations by Northstar to delegitimise the video typing. he has some... eccentric ideas in his head about what happens on this forum. it's unlikely that EII would respond with such open disdain towards someone, especially a stranger.
1. as Fi and introverts they do not so quickly jump to behaviour which may inflame a conflict. similarly, a logical type, being insecure in emotional evaluations/expression, would likely say something less explicit, if they had to.
2. Ne types would not often react so simplistically to a situation which they do not know much of. when they do not have all the pertinent information, or suspect they may not have it, they are apt to perceive with nuance how the situation could be understood. to imagine alternative interpretations for situations is less important for Ni valuing types, less obvious for S.

so, since EII is at least not the most likely based on your current behavior, i recommend a video too, or at least to seriously try checking with intertypes irl. you may have the impulse to consider yourself EII, since you identify your partner as LSE. to potentially get closer to the truth about this would help with your decisions and understanding of that relationship.

Another heads up, nifl is a sock puppet of Sol.

Also good to know for new members, Alive types everyone IEI so that's worth taking into account.