if they flirt with me i assume they are interested. unfortunately i then start testing whether the relationship is real and fuck it up. happens pretty much every time
if they flirt with me i assume they are interested. unfortunately i then start testing whether the relationship is real and fuck it up. happens pretty much every time
I think a lot of women have different types of beauty, considering my physiological responses to them.
For example, this one woman who is a professor of mine makes my mouth salivate when she's sitting down with her legs crossed and proceeds to do some taunt/swaying thing using her feet (in heels) too. I'm pretty indifferent to food and it never makes me salivate but this sure as Hell did. She doesn't make my heart rate raise or anything though.
This other woman who is a counselor at my school is very sexually alluring (big breasted) and flirty, she actually makes my heart rate raise and I have to calm my English when talking to her in order to not let her know how interested I am. She doesn't make me salivate though.
This girl I'm dating gives me average physiological responses, very much unlike the two unique examples. I plan to ask them out as soon as I graduate
Women, unlike men, apparently are capable of reading a man's interest in her extremely accurate. I've even heard this to go so far as a woman being able to *feel* a man's lusty stare. Is this true? I would like some women to verify these hypothesis and tell me what they think.
I'm not good at reading how interested a girl is. It's either they're interested or not, (which I usually test with a kiss, if she turns her head she doesn't like me). Some men, probably 3% of them, can gauge a woman's interest toward him from 0 - 100%. My radar is simple shitty binary, either I have a chance 1 or 0 I'm out.
I can only read a woman's interest by her actions. The best signals are her finding an excuse to touch me, complimenting me, kissing at the end of a date. If she laughs at my bad jokes that's an okay sign.
Obvious signs she isn't interested is when you ask her out and she's like "Can I call you back to make sure?". Yeah if I was Brad Pitt you wouldn't say that darling Some of you women need to grow some ovaries and tell a man "No thank you, I'm not interested (in you, Turkey)."
Last edited by intjguy; 11-19-2009 at 10:49 AM.
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i cannot explain exactly how but this is easy. especially with intuitive guys. with sensing guys is a little bit confusing sometimes.
Posts I wrote in the past contain less nuance.
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yes. I can. watch their eyes and see where they go. heh. I've had men look me up and down before without trying to hide that they're doing this. and then sometimes they get this little near-grin on their face. gah! Or the other type of man refuses to look at you at all because when he does, his face gets red because he's so attracted. That's really cute actually. (I think it's more likely for introverts to react that way) But the best stares are right in the eyes with no backing down.
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I notice when a guy looks at me more often than usual, but don't know what to attribute it to. It could be attraction, admiration, scientific curiosity, the bird in my hair, or just a comfortable neck position. A guy thought I was looking at him the other day because he was in front of me to the right and my head naturally turns slightly to the right.
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This all depends on the context. Am I out with my friends? If so, I interpret stupid conversation like "so where are you from," or "I've never seen you before, who do you usually hang out with" or anything along these trivial lines as sexual interests to SOME degree. If I'm at work I'm gonna interpret it as small talk. It's all about the degree to which they show attention to you in relation to the circumstance AND others. For instance, a friendly girl is just a friendly girl. If she's talking to me and everyone else in a really gregarious manner, I'm not going to assume interest. However if there's extended interest in me disproportionate to her interest in others, I'm going to begin entertaining the possibility that the girl likes me.
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