I tend to feel more attracted to Gamma SFs. Probably has something to do with my Imago being Fi valuing/IEE. From those 4 options, I tend to be the least attracted to LSIs. But I meet and come across LSIs as well as ESIs the most often from those types. As I said earlier, it probably has something to do with the HAs. And Se leads live in another world. That world is a mirror to my own, so it is complementary, but on the other side regardless. I meet Se leads very rarely. When I am walking around in public, I bet I walk past Se leads, but I do not really get to know them. Same with Te leads really. And again, fits my "different worlds"-theory. Interestingly though, from those guys who've approached me in public, they were either SEE or LSE (ouch haha). Basically, if I got "out" more and frequented certain places more, I'd be able to meet an Se lead. But I'd have to get out of my way to meet them. I don't have to do that with ESIs and LSIs. My closest friends have been ESI women, LSI men, and IEE women.
The only likely types for me are Ni valuing really (even though I sometimes come across Alpha SFs with whom I'd feel tempted to go with and just "see what happens"). Partly because those are the only types I am willing to date long-term/potentially marry. From the Ni valuing ones, LIE and ESI are mostly "out", too. While I go back and forth with considering them as options, reality teaches me that the interaction is usually too tricky or lop-sided or stressful. If I kept focusing on Socionics and type-related stuff and never got out of my comfort zone or past the borders of my world, then a fellow Ni lead would become the most likely. Though I currently rather stay away from a fellow IEI (but I might change my mind) and ILIs usually don't have the right kind of Enneagram compatibility with me (but I might "get lucky"), so... Also, I don't plan on never traveling outside of my world. In that case, maybe SEE would be the most likely. Or some LSI-Se, but I don't have much Imago attraction to LSIs, so I'd have to choose compatibility over attraction there. I find SLE unlikely because of Enneagram differences and too different lifestyles. If I found an EIE in my social circle with whom I vibed well and stuff, maybe EIE. I've met more EIE men than Se lead ones in my social circles and classes, but there hasn't been one that was compatible/attractive/available so far.
As of now I find SEE the most likely, because of certain Enneagram compatibilities, possible opportunities in the future, my Imago, my preferences, etc. But who knows, my personal bias could very well cloud my vision there.It's largely a matter of who I will come across, be approached by, and who I will accept. It is not entirely clear yet whether I will make myself enter situations with a compatible SEE around.
Anyway, I think it's gonna be one of the Ni valuing types minus ESI and LIE.
The most likely being (as of now): EIE, SEE, LSI.



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