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    Default IEI-ILI Comparative/Kindred Relations (INTp and INFp)

    It seems that INTps really like when I rant and be critical, like they do, they are like 'Hell yeah' and give me a WHAT UP DOE....

    But then as soon as I show more of my real self, kind of like umm a loving boy that is sweetly optimistic and actually believes in his faggy gay man ideals of making the world a better place via shaman magic, and more magical and dreamy and romantic INFp-like, if I give a hint to that, they kind of laugh/scoff if off, or get like umm I don't know, just annoyed by that, and start to leave me alone. They say something biting and nihilistic about the human condition as a whole, but still part of me can't help but be ideal and wondrous with it. Even though at the time, I was definitely serious with my angsty rants, 110%, and I always am. It's almost like I'm tricking myself into darkness so I can feel the light on the other side, like I'm always waiting for that romantic pay-off to lift me up and encourage me when I'm down.

    Anyways just wanted to comment on this dynamic because I thought it was interesting.

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    My experience is very similar. It's like complaining is something they can relate to but actually feeling soft or vulnerable? not so much.
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    how many INTPs is this based on ?

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    Every INTp I have ever met/interacted with, about 5 or 6.

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    this is at least true for how i feel about you on this forum

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    And of course as an LII it's just the opposite for me. I find IEI negativity and criticism tiresome and at times aggravating, but softness or vulnerability humanizing and enjoyable.
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    Default COMPARATIVE RELATIONS, IEI and ILI

    So, I have an IEI friend who is dating an ILI. I'm curious about this inter type relation. Does anyone have any idea about comparative, specifically this pairing?
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    I can only be friendly with most IEE from a distance, I PoLR hit them too often.

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    I saw the characters of Luca and Jenny in this movie (http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0283015/) as (possibly) ILI and IEI respectively.

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    Quote Originally Posted by bnd View Post
    It seems that INTps really like when I rant and be critical, like they do, they are like 'Hell yeah' and give me a WHAT UP DOE....

    But then as soon as I show more of my real self, kind of like umm a loving boy that is sweetly optimistic and actually believes in his faggy gay man ideals of making the world a better place via shaman magic, and more magical and dreamy and romantic INFp-like, if I give a hint to that, they kind of laugh/scoff if off, or get like umm I don't know, just annoyed by that, and start to leave me alone. They say something biting and nihilistic about the human condition as a whole, but still part of me can't help but be ideal and wondrous with it. Even though at the time, I was definitely serious with my angsty rants, 110%, and I always am. It's almost like I'm tricking myself into darkness so I can feel the light on the other side, like I'm always waiting for that romantic pay-off to lift me up and encourage me when I'm down.

    Anyways just wanted to comment on this dynamic because I thought it was interesting.
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    An optimist - does not get discouraged under any circumstances. Life upheavals and stressful events only toughen him and make more confident. He likes to laugh and entertain people. Enters contact with someone by involving him with a humorous remark. His humor is often sly and contain hints and double meanings. Easily enters into arguments and bets, especially if he is challenged. When arguing his points is often ironic, ridicules the views of his opponent. His irritability and hot temper may be unpleasant to others. However, he himself is not perceptive of this and believes that he is simply exchanging opinions.

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