This sounds typically ILE. They like to have the issue of psychological distance (in communication) taken care of for them, and would prefer to always use the same distance and act like everyone's "buddy" -- no matter what the situation or person. They become uncomfortable when for some reason others want to change the distance on them and make the relationship formal and strict, or intensely close and personal. Does this sound right?
In contrast, SEE's and IEE's (with

as their creative function) are very flexible in their psychological distance. They recognize when they must be cold and formal, and when they can "break" the existing distance and create a closer distance. Because of this they rarely if ever do or say something stupid (that they would regret) in a group or even one-on-one that destroys the mood and hurts others' feelings (unless it was intentional).