Interesting... I hadn't thought of that.
Yeah... there are other explanations for this than the assumption, of course; my guess is that you're testing Thinking against precisely

-oriented situations, which is not what you will normally have in Merry environments. Of course, if by "relationships" you mean

then we're silly to argue with you, but if by "relationships" you mean all connections between multiple people, I have already stated what I know to be true for theoretical reasons.
Your observations have the problem of being a convenience sample, probably of people interacting with a group that you are generally comfortable with, which will indeed select for

; this is not to be considered representative of the usefulness of

in all places at all times.