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    What dual pairs are most likely to be jealous? and why.

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    I think SLEs are pretty infamous for this, though I don't think they're jealous as a rule by any means. Makes sense with weak Ne and Fi I guess.
    But, for a certainty, back then,
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    We hurt others and were hurt ourselves...

    Yet even then, we ran like the wind,
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    Quote Originally Posted by Gilly View Post
    I think SLEs are pretty infamous for this, though I don't think they're jealous as a rule by any means. Makes sense with weak Ne and Fi I guess.
    Why with weak Ne?

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    Weak estimation of what is feasibly possible? *shrug*
    But, for a certainty, back then,
    We loved so many, yet hated so much,
    We hurt others and were hurt ourselves...

    Yet even then, we ran like the wind,
    Whilst our laughter echoed,
    Under cerulean skies...

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    I don't think jealousy has to do with duality. I don't think it's Socionics related, though I can see certain types more susceptible to it, or each quadra has their own way of going about jealousy. My NeTi best friend gets jealous whenever I'm spending too much other time with people because she thinks they could possibly be replacing her, but this could be because of weak self-confidence or and example of -PoLR. I don't think I really get jealous, I used to be envious when I was younger but grew out of it, but something tells me it was experience related.

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    Is there a type that's not jealous?

    I am "choke a bitch" jealous. Othello ain't got nuthin' on me.

    But this is part of the fun until someone dies in a hotel closet hanging on a rope.
    Last edited by mu4; 08-28-2009 at 02:22 PM.

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    I actually heard it more for LSI. I'm guessing:
    -Aristocratic>Democratic
    -Decisive>Judicious
    -Judging>Perceiving

    Not necessarily in that order... that makes ILE/SEI the least jealous. Also, the Sensor would probably be more jealous in a given pair.

    EDIT: Probably related to insecurity, so dominant might have a tendency for less jealousy. Also, sexual jealousy <> attention jealousy (which Alpha NTs would be more prone to).



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    Quote Originally Posted by Brilliand View Post
    I actually heard it more for LSI. I'm guessing:
    -Aristocratic>Democratic
    -Decisive>Judicious
    -Judging>Perceiving

    Not necessarily in that order... that makes ILE/SEI the least jealous. Also, the Sensor would probably be more jealous in a given pair.

    EDIT: Probably related to insecurity, so dominant might have a tendency for less jealousy. Also, sexual jealousy <> attention jealousy (which Alpha NTs would be more prone to).
    ILE/SEI aren't the least jealous imo, jealousy isn't bad, it's good to keep things interesting and to prove desire. If you don't get jealous, your partner might go for someone else thinking you aren't interested anymore.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Pinocchio View Post
    Also S>N, which can't be deduced from those inequalities, EIE has the same.
    Imo LSI is the most jealous, too.
    I left that out because this was about dual pairs, rather than individual types.



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