Is this an example of polR?

A relative called me today, and asked me if I had lost any weight, because she was worried about me eating enough in college, because no one is here to make me food. She wasn't exactly joking either, and I was slightly upset that she would perceive me as incompetent in that way...

If that's not really it, then all my stuff about staying in shape lately should do it. And my two bottles of multivitamins in my drawer.......