I agree with everything @Chae said. Lol it's a trust thing to display my inner chaos.
I will say though I'm trying to reveal that side of myself faster and faster bc it cuts out people that can't handle how awesome I am
I would say that for me, I am guarded based on my own shame and I want to conquer that. The more open I am the better I feel because I realize that I am a good person and have every right to show all of myself without caution or feeling too chaotic.
I will add that I flirt with everyone; I could flirt with a door.
If I like the person I get shy and more serious. It may not be easy to see to be honest as it is subtle.
I make sure it is not obvious in case my feelings change later on. But I focus on giving them useful advice and noticeably like a pseudo-caregiver. It's 100% true for me in that I demonstrate that I will caution them if something sounds risky etc. I become much less carefree in general and zero in on the person intensely so I feel like I'm being attentive.


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