*Inspired by Numbers' thread and Allie's comment therein*
Who do you think is definitely not in your quadra and may be your conflictor?
This could actually be a useful thread if the personal insults are kept to a minimum![]()
*Inspired by Numbers' thread and Allie's comment therein*
Who do you think is definitely not in your quadra and may be your conflictor?
This could actually be a useful thread if the personal insults are kept to a minimum![]()
Last edited by female; 07-08-2009 at 06:58 PM.
LII-Ne with strong EII tendencies, 6w7-9w1-3w4 so/sp/sx, INxP
smccosker, Jimbean, unefille, BulletsandDoves, khamelion, cyclops, niffweed17, Subt, and Carla.
None of the people I would choose for this I predict to be my conflictor.
the way that people approach this type of thread is by listing people with whom they are most irked, or with whom they dislike most fervently. while i could do this, i can only think of one person on this board who i dislike and believe might possibly be my conflictor as a result of this dislike. currently, i am more inclined to think of that person as a different (but similar) type. the perceptive will easily discern the identity of this individual.
i compiled a tentative list of 23 individuals who i dislike intensely (including the individual above). many of the individuals on this list are predictable, though some of them may not be. of these 23, i currently type 17 of them as betas, 1 as gamma, 3 as alpha, and 2 as undecided. of these 23 individuals, i type none of them as my conflictor, and regard it as a possibility for perhaps 4 or 5 of them.
in addition, i came up with an auxiliary list of people with whom i have severe problems communicating but don't dislike as individuals. this list contains 5 people, distributed 3 alphas, 1 beta, 1 delta according to my typings. none of them are my conflictor, per my typings.
in conclusion, this is a poor test of conflictor-ness.
subT, discojoe, joy, cracka, kam, ezra, the ENTp lesbian girl, kioshi or whoever that cat woman is .. yeah she's a dumbass. Gilly, for gayness. glamourama cuz she's stupid.
Last edited by crazedrat; 07-08-2009 at 09:54 PM.
Who do I think is my conflictor?
Bardia, Calenwen.
Who do I get irked by/do not want in my quadra, conflictor or no?
Implied, Subt, Expat, Ritella, JuJu, Mikemex, Ashton, Hoodrat
These people consistently rub me the wrong way, I can't seem to get through to, and/or have a distant world view. I don't necessarily dislike these people, but they all tend to piss me off.
(They are all Fi/Te valuing imo fwiw)
Last edited by ArchonAlarion; 07-10-2009 at 11:06 PM.
The end is nigh
1981slater. I'll fight you, man!
cyclops
cyclops
cyclops
It's understandable because we normally avoid our conflictors, and rarely does it reach the point of looking like a textbook conflicting relationship. The types I get into the worst kinds of arguments with are usually my comparative and mirage (LSI and LSE) because we usually are interested in similar things, thus we have things to disagree about.
The saddest ESFj
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My conflictor has never dueled anybody, I have no reason to suspect.
You are projecting. The way you view "conflictors" and the world isn't the way conflictors (and the world) objectively actually is.It's understandable because we normally avoid our conflictors, and rarely does it reach the point of looking like a textbook conflicting relationship.
Assuming you are even typing those people correctly, people can not get along for non-socionics based reasons too.The types I get into the worst kinds of arguments with are usually my comparative and mirage (LSI and LSE) because we usually are interested in similar things, thus we have things to disagree about.
expat, as far as smooth communication goes. But this is hard to answer, cause there are people here I dislike/disdain/want to kill, yet I never 'duel' or w/e with him, just because. Whereas there are others (who know who they are) that I do value/find interesting, but whom I fight with more often. Maybe this says something, I don't know. I do often find myself responding to completely incompatible people with a sort of indifference; the fights occur when someone is compatible with you, but not enough to keep things smooth all the time.
*edit: yeah, I think there's something to this. If I like certain qualities in someone, it will only enhance my dislike for their other qualities (assuming the existence of both). So, I'll almost quarrel with them to regain a foothold on the compatibility derived from the interaction of our respective complimentary qualities, and extinguish the others. Weirdly polarizing like that. And with those whom I am not attracted to/compatible with at all, I don't even care enough to exert myself towards such a thing.
4w3-5w6-8w7
DeAnte
that guy is NOT an SLI.
<Crispy> what subt doesnt understand is that a healthy reaction to "FUCK YOU" isand not